MEMBER SINCE: May 2006
occupation: Work? Pfft According to this letter I got, I may already be a winner in the Publisher's Clearinghouse Sweepstakes.
fantasy: Fantasy? You serious? Fantasies are for people who are afraid of living out their desires.
makes me sad: Filling out long ass questionnaires.
into: LiteBrites, looking for images of baby Jesus in crackers/clouds/drops of water.
crush: My chica. I totally *heart* her.
heroes: Jack Kevorkian, Alberto Vargas, Gil Elvgren, T.N.Thompson and a few others.
stats: I'm a narcissistic midget.
makes me happy: Interacting with people who can actually think for themselves, joking around, music, creativity, and my lame ass fishtanks.
most humbling moment: The first time I took my boxers off and heard giggling. And then the giggling turned to all-out pointing and laughter. I cried. God, please make it stop.
sign: Middle finger.
i lost my virginity: To another virgin.
Dear judgmental person,
I know you well. I have been you most of my life - no matter how much I want to deny it. I sometimes find myself slipping back into that person at times but am thankful that I either catch myself, or one of those I'm close to catches me.
Anyway, I just wanted to let you know that I don't hate you. I can completely empathize with who you are but there comes a time where you have to take responsibility for who you have become in life and decide whether or not that is really who you WANT to be.
There is nobody "beneath" you; for any reason. Not one single person was able to choose where they were born, what color they are, what physical features they have, or who their parents are. You cannot judge them for these things ever. If you feel you still HAVE to judge.....then judge them for things they CAN change (or have control over such as personality traits or a really bad hat).
Their worst problems are no different than your worst problems. They may not be identical - but that doesn't matter...it doesn't change the fact that it is a problem for that person.
Also, just because something isn't right for you - it doesn't mean it isn't right for someone else. Accept the fact that people cannot base their lives on what others expect of them. They will never be happy. Is it fair to expect someone to waste their life (no matter how little or how much) to get either yours, their parents', or even society's approval? Fuck no. That is pure misery.
As far as someone's sexuality; why do you care what they are into? Do you think anyone chooses what they are attracted to? I'm convinced that we cannot. Why would you further insult me because I accept them? Why are you so threatened by people who are attracted to different things than you? Why can't you be secure enough with who you are and your own...















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