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MAY 8, 2013 @ 09:59 AM | 41 COMMENTS

I would like to take a minute and address the whole Facebook/Instagram comments issue.... I know this has been talked about quite a bit recently but I just thought I would throw my two cents out there and hopefully it helps....

When my set posted on the FP I woke up feeling AMAZING!!! I was on top of the world. I had tried for a very long time to reach this goal and it was finally here!

And then I did what a lot of people do in the morning.... I made coffee and hopped on the social networking circuit. The first thing that caught my eye was a message from a close friend saying " Don't let them get to you, keep your head up!"..... And I was like HUH??? What could get me down? Today is going to be AMAZING!!!.... And then I saw the post. SG had posted my pic on their Fb wall as set of the day.... Holy cow talk about mean comments!!! I was SHOCKED by how rude people were being and I felt personally attacked immediately.... And then two things happened.
#1 I scrolled down to some pictures of other Suicide Girls who I find to be RIDICULOUSLY beautiful and I read all of the hurtful comments people had written about THEM too!!!
#2 I took a step back and realized how absurd and stupid these comments actually were!!! These girls were NOTHING like the comments described them as being! These girls were beautiful and amazing!!!!
So.... Then I went back and re-read the comments people left on my picture and I started to laugh. Some of them were actually quite creative and very funny. A couple of my favorites were "nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo boobs" and " from the neck down she's a 10"

so, I "liked" every mean comment and friend requested every person who left them. I decided instead of letting it get me down I was going to make a joke of it and show them it didn't bother me. AND the dude who left the no boobs comment actually apologized and ended up being a good friend in the end

So.... I guess what I am trying...

So.... I guess what I am trying to say is, it is what you make it. You can let it bring you down or you can make a joke of it. These people aren't sitting around wishing you harm or for bad things to happen to you! They are just some bored asshole on the Internet trying to make whitty comments to feel cool. And in the end, if you go and check out the profiles of the people leaving the mean comments, chances are they aren't someone you would have wanted to date anyways

So who cares what they think!?!? You might have a big butt and small boobies... And you might have a big nose or crazy hair.... And you might just be EVERYTHING they say you are.... But the reason why one person doesn't love you is EXACTLY what makes someone else swoon over you!!!! That's what makes THIS SITE so awesome!!! We are ALLOWED to be different and awkward and STILL be beautiful!!!!! Keep your heads up ladies

Life will give you REAL things to stress about. In the end, this is nothing.

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cyclmn

Sacramento, CA

December 2007

MAY 08, 2013 10:05 AM

You go girl!!!

mhef

Rocklin, CA

June 2008

MAY 08, 2013 10:05 AM

Great blog Sweet Brandie....I will tell I do not do FB or Twit........met too many rude people there.,...I will stick to SG,,,,,I love the people here.......you very much included....in that love,,,,,mhef

Son_of_None

USA

December 2010

MAY 08, 2013 10:07 AM

Well said. Glad you finally get how assholes, work.

Babel

SUICIDEGIRL

Argentina

MAY 08, 2013 10:08 AM

Personally, I care. But maybe it's because I'm very sensite and sometimes insecure about myself.
But you're right! People use to enjoy being mean with the others....envy?

You're beautiful

PS: I like your new set, the pics against the window are great!

Ceri

HOPEFUL

Olympia, WA

MAY 08, 2013 10:20 AM

well said babe!

CHEWBACCA1

USA

August 2010

MAY 08, 2013 10:23 AM

I agree with you totally and you certainly have the right attitude. Screw the haters. Live your life and ignore those who try to shit on it. I think your last set was great. Best wishes always.

Circa_x

HOPEFUL

USA

MAY 08, 2013 10:30 AM

Hellllll yeah you go girl! I'm happy to hear it doesn't bring you down at all I deleted my Facebook about a year ago because people are so mean.. So I stayed away!
Like you said, people are always gonna talk badly.. As Long as you remember that you are one cute ass babe and that you're better then that- that's what matters
I love when people try and use "no boobs" as a insult.. Uhhh yeah, I'm aware of that, I only look at them everyday I am super jealous you're getting that changed though!

Anyway, You rock and thank you so much for allll the love <333 have a good hump day

thanatOZ

HOPEFUL

Colombia

MAY 08, 2013 10:30 AM

you rule!!!
im so glad you took it that way honey, dam thast actittud, thast a stronge woman, thats a girl that dosent take shit form nobody, , i knew it form the momenti find you, you are a totall SG, a rocking girl, im so in love with you, will be here for you everythime you need it girl... i guess what im trying to say is, nver mind the shit, look up and make the good and suporting comments shine on your heard and eyes

mkayal

USA

October 2010

MAY 08, 2013 11:06 AM

The only people that post are trolls and good people feed them. Its sad really.

TripleWWW

USA

November 2012

MAY 08, 2013 11:17 AM

Brandie (and please feel free to pass this on to any other SG's you're friends with and are going through this social media crap): I believe the explanation is simple. SG is a "pay to join" site; Facebook and most other social media are "free." SG also has a self-regulating quality while regulation on FB is basically nothing until somebody complains and maybe not even then. Thus, trolls and haters run amok on FB and other social media; it isn't allowed on SG, and none of these haters will pay SG to get on the site and be stupid and mean. Those of us who join SG are here for the purposes of the community. We all have different reasons, but we're here for some "virtual companionship" of some sort. So even if I don't find a girl "my type" of attractive, I'm not going to abuse her or hate on her. As a friend of mine who once had a brief interlude as a stripper told me "Every guy likes a different girl." But the haters on social media use it as a punk site to deliberately hurt people. Girls who do it are jealous; guys who do it can't get an erection unless they're hurting a woman. Don't spend time being hurt. All of you are beautiful, regardless of personal tastes from any single individual. And Brandie, speaking solely of you and my opinion (which you already know)--you are beautiful. Any girl who says differently WISHES she were you, and any guy who says differently is a dickless wonder who only gets girls by raping them or buying them. Love you Beautiful!

TripleWWW

USA

November 2012

MAY 08, 2013 11:21 AM

Oh by the way: Your boobs are just fine. If you want to change them for YOU, more power to you; I've got nothing against that. In my life, I've been attracted to girls in a large variety of shapes and sizes (not just boobs). I've been attracted to women in the itty-bitty-titty club, and strippers who had surgery for the 48 DD's (although most of those don't turn out so well; one told me that as soon as she made her $, she was having them reduced because they were a pain in the back). And anyway, anything more than a mouthful is just extra anyway .