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JULY 14, 2008 @ 09:20 PM | 17 COMMENTS

Ok so its time for an emo blog. I will start off this blog by explaining a little bit about my family situation, my parents immigrated to Canada from Ireland back in the 70's they both didn't have any other family here and I was the only child that they had. So I family events were always small and it was usually just the 3 of us. like a lot of guys I didn't get along with my father, I have always thought that I was a lot different from him, but maybe the real problem was that we were both too much alike, we are both very stubborn and have the Irish temper. Needless to say the relationship was never very good and really still isn't today, but my parents are my only real family here and regardless of any of any disagreements I still do care about them. So here is the emo part today I found out that my dad has prostate cancer, my mom says they caught it early and that they are saying 6 weeks of radiation treatment and thats all I really know at this point, I actually only found this out about 2 hours ago.

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aldremech

Tucson, AZ

July 2006

JUL 14, 2008 10:05 PM

That really sucks man. I feel for you, but they did catch it early, so he should get through this crap with flying colors. Take this as an opportunity to get to know the parents again.

Pandara

USA

October 2007

JUL 14, 2008 10:18 PM

I'm sorry for this. Facing mortality is not always so cool.

Texaspsych

San Antonio, TX

July 2005

JUL 15, 2008 12:00 AM

wow man. I am so sorry to hear about that. It is a shame when some one so close has to deal with illness. I will give you my best energy and best thoughts.
You are an amazing man. It isn't fair for you either.

PJZ

I'm lost

February 2008

JUL 15, 2008 01:51 AM

Wow. I am so sorry to hear that. I wish you Dad and your family all the best in the coming months and beyond.

nina_kova

Providence, RI

May 2006

JUL 15, 2008 05:24 AM

wow....i'm so sorry to hear that. i know what it's like coming from a small family like yours and it's scary when something happens to a part of that. it doesn't matter how you do or don't get along, they are your family and he is your dad and it sucks.

it is good they found it early and i will keep you all in my thoughts and blessings....

Kekelyn

Canada

January 2007

JUL 15, 2008 06:49 AM

Aww no Well I hope that everything works out with your Dad and your family darling

Tunnel_Vision

Westbrook, CT

November 2007

JUL 15, 2008 07:22 AM

I'm sorry to hear that Did they give him the option of the pellet treatment?

BIG_BOY

I'm lost

February 2007

JUL 15, 2008 09:44 AM

sorry to hear.....its never to latye to mend fences.....

hellstorm

Rochester, NY

December 2003

JUL 15, 2008 02:38 PM

damn...best of luck man!

seems that things like this really make you re-evaluate stuff.

best of luck....here's hoping that things work out for the best!

Metta

I'm lost

September 2006

JUL 15, 2008 04:31 PM

Now is the time for you to come to me and vent.
you were there for me. now I am there for you.

and believe me I can empathize more than you know. but I am sure I will talk to you later.

stickers? poke?

sabine8

I'm lost

March 2007

JUL 15, 2008 05:15 PM

Oh man...that's awful. Sorry hun. It does sound like the odds are good though, if they caught it early.
Hang in there

Drifty

Portland, ME

February 2008

JUL 16, 2008 02:14 PM

Sounds like it will turn out well in the end. Catching it early is always the best situation. Be there for your dad and take this oppurtunity to re approach your relationship with him. At least make your best effort. I don't know you well or the exact details, but I think that is what I would try to do.