So as a hopeless romantic i've been giving it a lot of thought. Why are we having such a fucking hard time assuming our love life? We keep treating each other as consumable that we can throw away when we don't feel like it anymore and pass to the next ''product'' and for most (guy's and girls) romance lose all its charm. Some go through a whole lifetime never knowing what it is to have so deep feeling for someone else that you would put them before you any day of the week. Then i realized; could it be our very cultural conception of romance that's crooked? Why do we keep ''falling'' in love? Isn't love suppose to be an empowerment? Aren't we suppose to fall ''out'' of love? Or are simply expecting to get our hearth broken as soon as we start to feel it? for my part i have been trying to change the way i would say it and believe its not easy, but i believe that it condition the very way we see it.
I won't fall in love ever again but grow in it.

So as a hopeless romantic i've been giving it a lot of thought. Why are we having such a fucking hard time assuming our love life? We keep treating each other as consumable that we can throw away when we don't feel like it anymore and pass to the next ''product'' and for most (guy's and girls) romance lose all its charm. Some go through a whole lifetime never knowing what it is to have so deep feeling for someone else that you would put them before you any day of the week. Then i realized; could it be our very cultural conception of romance that's crooked? Why do we keep ''falling'' in love? Isn't love suppose to be an empowerment? Aren't we suppose to fall ''out'' of love? Or are simply expecting to get our hearth broken as soon as we start to feel it? for my part i have been trying to change the way i would say it and believe its not easy, but i believe that it condition the very way we see it.
I won't fall in love ever again but grow in it.