age: 64 (Nov 30, 1948)

MEMBER SINCE: July 2007

occupation: Mod of SG Eating Disorders board, and SG BPD board. Modded other web boards for many years and work on Something Fishy too. I know many people with DID. Used to make that jewelery you see in high-end craft galleries.

sign: The one that looks like a teapot.

body mods: Graying hair : It's organic, I earned it, I 'm liking it.

heroes: Richard Kluft Richard Fineman Hildie Bruche

i lost my virginity: When a good friend insisted.

most humbling moment: On-going ADD flubs in real life.

into: People being real. The Lake. Paying attention to every single thing that happens in nature. Birds are fine, but to be honest I'm paying more and more attention to bugs these days. I also mod the SG Eating Disorders and Borderline Personality groups. Good people, one and all.

gets me hot: Intelligence and insight and a lack of bitterness in people. Tender-heartedness as well : Has it gone completely out of style ?

crush: I had an absolutely stunning one recently , but she did a lot to confirm the idea that it's probably best to be careful if you hope to preserve your personal sense of ease.

stats: Getting further into my 60's with every passing year, and learning that a person can be somewhat OK with that. Take it from me : We're all in the same boat, and if you are fortunate, you'll find yourself up against the same thing yourself one day.

makes me happy: Seeing friends make progress. Seeing my peony seedlings bloom for the first time. There are times when simply seeing my lawn being green feels good too.