
age: 32 (Mar 19, 1979)
MEMBER SINCE: February 2004
occupation: crisis intervention-y-type things, professional piercer, jill-of-all-trades....
sign: sit down when shots are fired. ...pisces?
most humbling moment: i am humbled daily.
crush: just one? i prefer to spread the love around. :)
i lost my virginity: i'd rather keep that memory tucked neatly away in the overhead compartment, thankyouverymuch.....
fantasy: i try and live it.
makes me sad: the average person. gawkers, infomercials, zoos, apathy. overly tan, overly made-up women. hopelessness, hot & sunny days, crown st. on a weekend night, whiners, drama, emotionlessness, chronic depression, all talk & no action.
gets me hot: intelligence, gap-teeth, adventures, confidence, fearlessness, play-fighting, affection, playing in the dark, surliness, quick wit, nerds, compassion & empathy, talent, blatant honesty, people who eat, good conversation, emotional intimacy, wanton lust, laughing until i can't breathe...
makes me happy: see "vices" ...genuine intellect, my bestest friends, sunset, rain, irony, laughing like a maniac, new tattoos, cloudy days, oceans, roller-coasters, genuine emotions, good music & movies & cartoons & Thai food. um... make that good food in general. driving with no particular destination in mind, sleeping, scrabble, fishtanks, vacations, the blowfish in "finding nemo".
body mods: quite a few. :) (i'm sooooo tempted to say something like... "a butterfly on my ankle" or "my zodiac sign on my lower back".......lmfao.) show-and-tell by invite only.
stats: redheaded alabaster amazon
20 things you may not know about me.... and you're probably going to wish i didn't tell you about.
1. my other car is a hearse. i would drive it more if gas wasn't so fucking expensive. i look out the window of my condo every day & wish i could take it everywhere. parking is also a bitch too... it's not exactly as practical as my 95 geo prism putt-putt.
2. i graduated from Yale in 2001 on what was nearly a full scholarship.
3. i hate children and 98% of mammalian pets. not all of them, but the thought of my OWN just bugs me out. i am too overconcerned that i'd neglect them somehow and choose to leave the whole business alone. the one pet i had and loved was my goldfish Barrel. i had breakfast with him nearly every day for four years. he outlasted three relationships. i cried for weeks when he died two years ago, and have not been able to bring myself to get another fish since. i carried his picture in my wallet.
4. i once weighed nearly 300lbs. then one day in 2002, i woke up decided not to.
5. i went to the high school depicted in the "lean on me" movie. it sucked as much as you might imagine.
6. i am very heavily tattooed, and hardly ever wear anything that reveals them, mainly because i HATE being gawked at.
7. my power animal is the manatee.
8.i was in a horrible car accident in 1996 that should have killed me.
9. as a result of number 8, i spent nearly two years learning how to walk without a major limp and speak without a stutter. i will also never, for some reason, be able to speak a foreign language, as that part of my brain is no longer functioning. that last part irks the shit out of me, but you'd never guess the rest of it until you're trying to get a good night's sleep in bed next to me on a night before it rains. then i'm in too much back pain to sleep, and life sucks ass.
10. my mom and brother...










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