It amazes me how some people can be so self delusional that they tell lies to everyone they meet to get whatever it is they want. Yet, when they are discovered to be the liar, the cheat, the theif, and the abuser...they then turn on the person that has gone above and to be, gove or do for them. They then tell lies about the person they used to make all that has gone wrong the fault of the person that discovered the truth.

I myself (in case any of you are wondering), have been the victim of such a delusional woman. Not all women are like this I know....but I have found to many of them in my lifetime. I know there are men out there that are just as bad and sometimes worse.

I opened my life to a woman that I fell in love with many years ago recently. She told me all the things my heart had been yearing to hear. I then began to do whatever I could to lay the ground work towards making a life together. She already had 5 children of her own and I have one. We joked about how we were making a modern brady bunch. After months of travel back and forth between her place and mine (1.5 hrs drive time one way) and after hundreds of dollars spent. I find out she has been telling many other men the same things. I was played like a cheap violin.

Once I discovered the truth by seeing the electronic communications myself, I decieded to cut my losses and run. While doing so she has her mom call me to tell me to come back and talk to the woman that did me wrong. Then tells me that the woman I had been done wrong by (woman X as she will be refered to from now on) "loved me like a brother" and did not want to lose me. This of course hurt as well as enraged me. I then explained to her (woman X's mom) that " I am sorry but you don't have sex with, suck his dick and tell him you want to have his baby to someone you love like a brother".

I have since found out that woman X has gone to mutual friends to tell them I went all psycho stalker on her and...

It amazes me how some people can be so self delusional that they tell lies to everyone they meet to get whatever it is they want. Yet, when they are discovered to be the liar, the cheat, the theif, and the abuser...they then turn on the person that has gone above and to be, gove or do for them. They then tell lies about the person they used to make all that has gone wrong the fault of the person that discovered the truth.

I myself (in case any of you are wondering), have been the victim of such a delusional woman. Not all women are like this I know....but I have found to many of them in my lifetime. I know there are men out there that are just as bad and sometimes worse.

I opened my life to a woman that I fell in love with many years ago recently. She told me all the things my heart had been yearing to hear. I then began to do whatever I could to lay the ground work towards making a life together. She already had 5 children of her own and I have one. We joked about how we were making a modern brady bunch. After months of travel back and forth between her place and mine (1.5 hrs drive time one way) and after hundreds of dollars spent. I find out she has been telling many other men the same things. I was played like a cheap violin.

Once I discovered the truth by seeing the electronic communications myself, I decieded to cut my losses and run. While doing so she has her mom call me to tell me to come back and talk to the woman that did me wrong. Then tells me that the woman I had been done wrong by (woman X as she will be refered to from now on) "loved me like a brother" and did not want to lose me. This of course hurt as well as enraged me. I then explained to her (woman X's mom) that " I am sorry but you don't have sex with, suck his dick and tell him you want to have his baby to someone you love like a brother".

I have since found out that woman X has gone to mutual friends to tell them I went all psycho stalker on her and SHE had to tell me to fuck off. All the while she was trying to call and text me into talking to her and buying back into her BS.

I cannot honestly wrap my head around the kind of delusion she has convinced herself of to be able to even look in the mirror at herself.

The only REAL thing I can say I can take from this is to trust my gut sooner and not be afriad to verbalise my doubts. If someone is NOT up to anything sketchy then they will be able to clear things up in cases of misunderstandings....if your gut is screaming at you that something is not right and to many things a person does just don't add up....cut and run. Don't be the victim and don't be afraid to stand for what's right.

Oh and to both guys and gals out there, if you meet a chick named Neva with 5 kids and she grew up around Augusta, GA....do not open your pockets or your pants...learn from my mistake and pain.