ok so heres the deal.... (btw adam... I dont care if you read this... this is my journal and I'll be damned if I mute myself because people who know us are on this site now)
my boyfriend leant his friend $7,000. it wasnt even his money... he borrowed it from the bank.... without ever askingme... fine.. I dont care... your money is your money and thats obviously how you want to play.. but this has affected my life to no end....
without getting the money back... we cant move ot melbourne in december... which means I cant start uni.... which means my life is on hold for a decision I was never involved in. Adrian cant leave his job because hes tied to them until the moeny is paid off.
adrian is miserable.. hes been threatening to commit suicide for weeks... but do you think he will ask for them oney back? NO!!! of course not... he owuld rather I move to melbourne without him than look uncool to his friend....
as far as i'm concerned he is showing all of his loyalty to his friend and absolutely none to me.... I really nee him at this point to go.. hey I fucked up... but I'm going to be a man about it and get the money back! instead.. he's done nothing.. and nor do I think he ever will....
he said to me on friday night.. its not fair if you have to stay because of my mistake... so yu to move melbourne and as soon as I can afford it I'll move down too... and in my head I'm like ASK FOR THE FUCKING MONEY FUCKING BACK ITS BEEN 4 MONTHS NOW.....
so yeah... hes is chosing his friends over me as I see it... I really need him to be a man about this.. and he is being a scared little fuckhead....
I cant go out with someone who wont stand up to bat when they've made a fuckup...
I cant go out with someone who I am more man than....
Its really pathetic... so I'm making plans to move out... I'm going to stay with my mum and sleep here 3 nights a week the nights I work until 2am.... with moving out and letting him take over the bond I only owe him $1000 which I should be able to pay off in no time... and then I'm moving straight to melbourne.....
so this is whats been bothering me.... the awful truth....
I was going to post this in the girls only group.... but fuck it... so many boys on here are my friends and I would like to hear your opinions....
much love
my boyfriend leant his friend $7,000. it wasnt even his money... he borrowed it from the bank.... without ever askingme... fine.. I dont care... your money is your money and thats obviously how you want to play.. but this has affected my life to no end....
without getting the money back... we cant move ot melbourne in december... which means I cant start uni.... which means my life is on hold for a decision I was never involved in. Adrian cant leave his job because hes tied to them until the moeny is paid off.
adrian is miserable.. hes been threatening to commit suicide for weeks... but do you think he will ask for them oney back? NO!!! of course not... he owuld rather I move to melbourne without him than look uncool to his friend....
as far as i'm concerned he is showing all of his loyalty to his friend and absolutely none to me.... I really nee him at this point to go.. hey I fucked up... but I'm going to be a man about it and get the money back! instead.. he's done nothing.. and nor do I think he ever will....
he said to me on friday night.. its not fair if you have to stay because of my mistake... so yu to move melbourne and as soon as I can afford it I'll move down too... and in my head I'm like ASK FOR THE FUCKING MONEY FUCKING BACK ITS BEEN 4 MONTHS NOW.....
so yeah... hes is chosing his friends over me as I see it... I really need him to be a man about this.. and he is being a scared little fuckhead....
I cant go out with someone who wont stand up to bat when they've made a fuckup...
I cant go out with someone who I am more man than....
Its really pathetic... so I'm making plans to move out... I'm going to stay with my mum and sleep here 3 nights a week the nights I work until 2am.... with moving out and letting him take over the bond I only owe him $1000 which I should be able to pay off in no time... and then I'm moving straight to melbourne.....
so this is whats been bothering me.... the awful truth....
I was going to post this in the girls only group.... but fuck it... so many boys on here are my friends and I would like to hear your opinions....
much love
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sorry baby, that is rough. i never "lend" money to anyone, ever. i will give you money, but i wont lend it out for the same reason you mentioned. too messy, and i never would let my friends come between me and my woman. do what you gotta do.
but i am sorry for the mess, i hope it works out for the best.
seriously.
love you lots!