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Allister

Allister

Chico, CA
September 2003

DEC 01, 2003 04:40 PM

I just read this article; it's probably had more press in Britain, though. I use quotes around the word 'deformed' because many people have differing views on what exactly constitutes a medical deformation.

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,104475,00.html

palindrome

palindrome

Portland, OR
February 2003

DEC 01, 2003 06:30 PM

Uh-oh.... this topic got pretty hot last time. confused

quijybo

quijybo

I'm lost
September 2002

DEC 01, 2003 07:04 PM

ok. i'm one that does not believe that living any life is better than not living at all.
myself, i want to have the plug pulled when it comes time.
similarly, i can understand the abortion of a fetus if it is going to lead a less than happy life. this, to me, means severe brain or bodily damage that interfere with everyday functioning.
this does not mean something cosmetic like a cleft palate.
jeez.

[Edited on Dec 01, 2003 by invaderkim]

tarbaby

tarbaby

I'm lost
April 2003

DEC 01, 2003 07:09 PM

i don't see what the big deal is-unless it's out of the womb it's not even a baby, RIGHT? whatever

Dante0

Dante0

Sandusky, OH
September 2003

DEC 01, 2003 07:29 PM

While, not completely cosmetic, a cleft palate is not a severe medical handicap that cannot be corrected by a medical means. I don't believe it's right.

I am not a pro-lifer by any stretch of the imagination, but I don't believe that late term/partial birth abortions should be an option for anyone unless the mother's life is in imminent danger.

I wouldn't exactly consider my stance pro-choice, either. Sadly, in the world we live in abortion is a necessary evil. As a society (not everyone...this is a generalization which is not exactly inaccurate), we're motivated instant gratification in almost every aspect of our existance. Sex is often indulged in irresponsibly by irresponsible people who have no cares other than the now. It would be a travesty to allow a child to grow up unwanted and unloved by irresponsible parents who think of nothing other than their own personal and instant gratification.

I do understand that there is another option: adoption. Unfortunately, the current system doesn't work the way it should, and many decent people who would probably be good parents are denied adoption rights for insignifigant reasons or because of mistakes they made in their distant past. Until a system that actually works is concieved and inplemented, abortion is something that we will continue to need. I'll be the first to agree that abortion should NOT be an alternative to birth control. But as long as there are children who are having sex at 12 years old and younger, there will be irresponsible people getting pregnant/getting someone pregnant.

There are many children who wait for adoption in vain. They grow up without knowing the love of a parent. Had I not grown up with loving parents, I have little doubt that I would be a total asshole right now. I have a hard enough time relating to people as it is.

Sorry for being long winded...I just don't want to be misunderstood.

quijybo

quijybo

I'm lost
September 2002

DEC 01, 2003 07:32 PM

i suppose i'm pro-choice. it really is their decision.
but to me i would take almost any other reason over a cosmetic reason for abortion.
to me, even if they said they didn't want it, or changed their mind, that is more valid to me than not wanting something because it isn't pretty.
i'm not sure why it is that resonates so wrongly within me.

quijybo

quijybo

I'm lost
September 2002

DEC 01, 2003 07:38 PM

Dante0 said:
While, not completely cosmetic, a cleft palate is not a severe medical handicap that cannot be corrected by a medical means. I don't believe it's right.

I am not a pro-lifer by any stretch of the imagination, but I don't believe that late term/partial birth abortions should be an option for anyone unless the mother's life is in imminent danger.

I wouldn't exactly consider my stance pro-choice, either. Sadly, in the world we live in abortion is a necessary evil. As a society (not everyone...this is a generalization which is not exactly inaccurate), we're motivated instant gratification in almost every aspect of our existance. Sex is often indulged in irresponsibly by irresponsible people who have no cares other than the now. It would be a travesty to allow a child to grow up unwanted and unloved by irresponsible parents who think of nothing other than their own personal and instant gratification.

I do understand that there is another option: adoption. Unfortunately, the current system doesn't work the way it should, and many decent people who would probably be good parents are denied adoption rights for insignifigant reasons or because of mistakes they made in their distant past. Until a system that actually works is concieved and inplemented, abortion is something that we will continue to need. I'll be the first to agree that abortion should NOT be an alternative to birth control. But as long as there are children who are having sex at 12 years old and younger, there will be irresponsible people getting pregnant/getting someone pregnant.

There are many children who wait for adoption in vain. They grow up without knowing the love of a parent. Had I not grown up with loving parents, I have little doubt that I would be a total asshole right now. I have a hard enough time relating to people as it is.

Sorry for being long winded...I just don't want to be misunderstood.




ooh. not longwinded at all.
i agree with everything you said there.
i'm also against late abortions. it's like, if you've gone that long why not just go all the way and choose adoption?
i'm definitely not against abortion before the last trimester in many instances, and i'm for it in some instances. however, i just can't fathom justifying it with something mostly cosmetic. even if it doesn't have a cleft palate, it's not going to be perfect. it doesn't seem rational to abort everytime you feel your child isn't going to be perfect.
i'm also lacking eloquence, because i wrote papers all day all.

tolrag

tolrag

I'm lost
April 2003

DEC 03, 2003 08:35 AM

While a cleft palate CAN be nothing more than a cosmetic deformity, it can also in some cases lead to the baby being born badly brain damaged.
The curate who brought this case up has no way of knowing any details beyond that the foetus has a cleft palate (and probably wouldnt understand if she did).

Skryche

skryche

New York, NY
January 2003

DEC 03, 2003 08:52 AM

ava said:
i don't see what the big deal is-unless it's out of the womb it's not even a baby, RIGHT? whatever


Right. The fetus should not be granted rights until it's born.

Jeff_Fries

Jeff_Fries

Humptulips, WA
September 2003

DEC 03, 2003 09:18 AM

Skryche said:

ava said:
i don't see what the big deal is-unless it's out of the womb it's not even a baby, RIGHT? whatever


Right. The fetus should not be granted rights until it's born.



The question is why is it considered a baby the second it exits the womb. Of course, it's impossible to call a bundle of a dozen cells a human beings. I think it makes sense to say the thing becomes a human at some point in the gestation period, if only because I can't see what phenomenon makes it become a human being the very moment it exits the birth canal.

DebraJean

DebraJean

SUICIDEGIRL

Egypt

DEC 03, 2003 10:27 AM

oh man, who cares if it's a normal fetus or a crappy fetus. why should someone be forced into carying a fetus to term just because they were a month late with the decision to abort.

funny, all the uproar about rape on this board and no one sees the connection between that and having hunk of person forced in your body in the name of ethics.

i forget words confused

[Edited on Dec 03, 2003 by DebraJean]

Skryche

skryche

New York, NY
January 2003

DEC 03, 2003 10:42 AM

Jeff_Fries said:

Skryche said:
Right. The fetus should not be granted rights until it's born.


The question is why is it considered a baby the second it exits the womb. Of course, it's impossible to call a bundle of a dozen cells a human beings. I think it makes sense to say the thing becomes a human at some point in the gestation period, if only because I can't see what phenomenon makes it become a human being the very moment it exits the birth canal.


I think it's when it stops being part of its mother's body and therefore its own person. Any other defined point ("second trimester", etc.) seems disturbingly arbitrary. I don't think a woman should have to carry a fetus that she doesn't want, no matter what.

Max16Characters

Max16Characters

Korea, Republic Of
March 2003

DEC 03, 2003 10:59 AM

DebraJean said:
oh man, who cares if it's a normal fetus or a crappy fetus. why should someone be forced into carying a fetus to term just because they were a month late with the decision to abort.

funny, all the uproar about rape on this board and no one sees the connection between that and having hunk of person forced in your body in the name of ethics.

i forget words confused

[Edited on Dec 03, 2003 by DebraJean]



Umhhh...the baby is not being forced into the woman. It's a developing foetus from a pregnancy. There's no connection between it and rape. If one's going to get an abortion, please do so before there's brain activity and a heartbeat in the developing foetus...otherwise, it's just murder in my eyes (exception being when SEVERE deformities are found in a sonogram, not a cleft pallett.) If one's so close to carrying to term, one might as well just pop out the kid and give it up for adoption. If 6 months is too short a time to make a decision on carrying the child to term, then i would seriously question one's decision making abilities.

I'm pro choice, but i feel there's a huge difference between getting an early term pregnancy aborted and aborting a late term foetus for something as trivial as a cleft pallett.

Max16Characters

Max16Characters

Korea, Republic Of
March 2003

DEC 03, 2003 11:05 AM



I love that link...just gave me an idea for a video game in which Jesus plays a crime fighting detective in gothic 1930's New York, trying to stop the Nazis or something.

DebraJean

DebraJean

SUICIDEGIRL

Egypt

DEC 03, 2003 11:09 AM

Max16Characters said:
Umhhh...the baby is not being forced into the woman. It's a developing foetus from a pregnancy. There's no connection between it and rape. If one's going to get an abortion, please do so before there's brain activity and a heartbeat in the developing foetus...otherwise, it's just murder in my eyes (exception being when SEVERE deformities are found in a sonogram, not a cleft pallett.) If one's so close to carrying to term, one might as well just pop out the kid and give it up for adoption. If 6 months is too short a time to make a decision on carrying the child to term, then i would seriously question one's decision making abilities.

I'm pro choice, but i feel there's a huge difference between getting an early term pregnancy aborted and aborting a late term foetus for something as trivial as a cleft pallett.



well when you cant get something out of you BY LAW then it sounds a bit like it's being forced on you.
really, all you are doing is telling someone what they can do with their body.
it dosnt really matter if you think the bitch should just suck it up and carry it to term, because you know what, if she dosnt want to she shouldent have to. end of story.

and for the record this sounds like an 'an outrageous violation' to me.

Max16Characters

Max16Characters

Korea, Republic Of
March 2003

DEC 03, 2003 11:13 AM

DebraJean said:

Max16Characters said:
Umhhh...the baby is not being forced into the woman. It's a developing foetus from a pregnancy. There's no connection between it and rape. If one's going to get an abortion, please do so before there's brain activity and a heartbeat in the developing foetus...otherwise, it's just murder in my eyes (exception being when SEVERE deformities are found in a sonogram, not a cleft pallett.) If one's so close to carrying to term, one might as well just pop out the kid and give it up for adoption. If 6 months is too short a time to make a decision on carrying the child to term, then i would seriously question one's decision making abilities.

I'm pro choice, but i feel there's a huge difference between getting an early term pregnancy aborted and aborting a late term foetus for something as trivial as a cleft pallett.



well when you cant get something out of you BY LAW then it sounds a bit like it's being forced on you.
really, all you are doing is telling someone what they can do with their body.
it dosnt really matter if you think the bitch should just suck it up and carry it to term, because you know what, if she dosnt want to she shouldent have to. end of story.

and for the record this sounds like an 'an outrageous violation' to me.



Well if someone doesn't want the developing foetus within them to come to term, they have around 6 months to decide. That's more than enough time in my book.

Helter

Helter

Chester, PA
OLD SKOOL

DEC 03, 2003 11:16 AM

Max16Characters said:
Well if someone doesn't want the developing foetus within them to come to term, they have around 6 months to decide. That's more than enough time in my book.



Except "your book" shouldn't have anything to do with what she can do with *her body*.
If she wants the parasitic lump of cells that's growing inside her and feeding off of her removed, she should be able to get that done. If you don't like the idea of a late term abortion, don't get one, and convince your friends to not get them either. Leave other people's rights alone though.

DebraJean

DebraJean

SUICIDEGIRL

Egypt

DEC 03, 2003 11:18 AM

Max16Characters said:

Well if someone doesn't want the developing foetus within them to come to term, they have around 6 months to decide. That's more than enough time in my book.



it really easy to have 'your book' take the ethical high ground when it's not your body thats being affected by the laws.

benchwarmer

benchwarmer

I'm lost
December 2003

DEC 03, 2003 11:18 AM

a great man once said, "you're not a human 'til you're in my phone book."

DebraJean

DebraJean

SUICIDEGIRL

Egypt

DEC 03, 2003 11:19 AM

Helter said:

Except "your book" shouldn't have anything to do with what she can do with *her body*.
If she wants the parasitic lump of cells that's growing inside her and feeding off of her removed, she should be able to get that done. If you don't like the idea of a late term abortion, don't get one, and convince your friends to not get them either. Leave other people's rights alone though.



oh gurl, your so snapriffic.

Max16Characters

Max16Characters

Korea, Republic Of
March 2003

DEC 03, 2003 11:20 AM

DebraJean said:

Max16Characters said:

Well if someone doesn't want the developing foetus within them to come to term, they have around 6 months to decide. That's more than enough time in my book.



it really easy to have 'your book' take the ethical high ground when it's not your body thats being affected by the laws.



So does that mean you're saying it's more ethical to carry the foetus to term?

[Edited on Dec 03, 2003 by Max16Characters]

Max16Characters

Max16Characters

Korea, Republic Of
March 2003

DEC 03, 2003 11:23 AM

Helter said:

Max16Characters said:
Well if someone doesn't want the developing foetus within them to come to term, they have around 6 months to decide. That's more than enough time in my book.



Except "your book" shouldn't have anything to do with what she can do with *her body*.
If she wants the parasitic lump of cells that's growing inside her and feeding off of her removed, she should be able to get that done. If you don't like the idea of a late term abortion, don't get one, and convince your friends to not get them either. Leave other people's rights alone though.



I am pro choice....do whatever the hell you want to the foetus before the third trimester keeping in mind that those actions can have dire consequences on the full term baby--defects and deformities etc... But once that foetus has a brain wave and a heartbeat, in my eyes, it's a human being. You can't convince me otherwise or insist that jsut because it's not out of the womb yet and in open air then it is not a human...just a lump of "parasitic cells."


PsychicGoldfish

PsychicGoldfish

HOPEFUL

Orono, ME

DEC 03, 2003 11:23 AM

maybe i have the moral compass of the average pebble, but, to me, this seems about on the same lines as throwing out a mostly-done sketch you are unhappy with. why not?

in an already overpopulated world, why force someone create yet another human- especially one that will suffer even more than the average person with the average human condition? are we really all that hard up for more human life? why not spend the energy to take care of the people who are alive, and stop worrying so much about the people who are not....

Heather

Heather

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

DEC 03, 2003 11:29 AM

i had a friend who just recently had an abortion..

she was a lil over 3 months pregnant..

she was raped..

i know she was..

she used alcohol as an excuse....

she was scared to tell anyone...i was the only one she ended up telling..

i was very upset with her...

so long..so long...she was pregnant..

i was upset..duh...and i gave her HELL..

i think in her case she was scared and really thought if she ignored it..it would go away...

which..it did not...planned parenthood here we come..

i LOVE her..she is my world...

i would of rather it be me than her..ya dig?!

her story is very common with girls...

this is such a sticky subject..ya know..

i think in some cases abortion IS the way..

for me it is NOT..

for people who use it as a form of birth control..
and they are out there..
YOU should be shOt..

for the ones who wait..and wait...i just don't know...so many factors involved.. whatever

for the ones i love....i will be there..no matter what..and that's what anyone should do..

before you judge.....KNOW...

i digress..meOw.. blackeyed

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