just my perspective

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Had a female coworker ask me why men are obsessed with women in sundresses, and I told her "Not only is it very feminine, but it gives the illusion of nudity without being nude."

"That's it? That's the reason? Even if we're wearing underwear, it still gives that illusion?" she asked.

"Yup. Every straight male I know LOVES women in sundresses, and I think if...
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skisby:
Ahhh the sundress, colorful, casual but stylish, sexy & playful. Shows just the right amount of skin, looks 😍 on ink’d women. They always make me think of fun, carefree & relaxed, warm summer days & laughter 🥰😍 (& that one date that bathed in patchouli, smoked clove cigarettes in my car & talked throughout the concert 😬😡, I liked her sundress though!).  @chikitina has the look down! https://www.suicidegirls.com/videos/140718/de-plus-en-plus-chaud-a-montreal-sassy/
sheashannara:
@jacleric thank you sir! @skisby they look AMAZING on ink'd women 😍

thanks spotify for the nostalgia!

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Haven't heard this song in like 10 or so years!

no such thing as an "incel"

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saw this great little video where this woman was saying that there's no such thing as a real "incel" (can't recall the exact wording, which is why I won't be using quotes and will instead be paraphrasing).

She said that those men who want to be called that just want women to be sex slaves, unthinking and unfeeling as they submit to the men. Because...
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sheashannara:
@jacleric and there's nothing wrong with that! But yeah, incels terrify me with their blatant misogyny disguised as self-pity...
jacleric:
Incels sound scary, @sheashannara.  Sniffs of self-loathing and denial.  Some people need therapy.

such a beautiful sad song

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jacleric:
I dig it.  Quite hypnotic
sheashannara:
@jacleric it is! Glad you like it sir!

great song

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sometimes, you can't go home again, as it were...

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I'm re-reading the Wheel of Time series (Robert Jordan is one of my all-time favorite authors, and the reason I tried -and failed- to become an author myself); it's been 5 or so years since I read them again, and one thing that keeps popping up to me is it's...quaint.
I mean, I still absolutely love them, and I still love his world building and...
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#flashbackFriday

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Man, I miss Rush :(

the ritual of thorns

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In the TTRPG Earthdawn there is a group called the Blood Elves, who earned their name from enacting a ritual during the Scourge to stop the Horrors from devouring their land and their people (whole lot of history in that game, if none of that makes sense I'm sorry LOL). This Ritual of Thorns made it so that thorns are constantly growing out of their...
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great duo!

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If I've already posted this song before, sorry about that, but it's such a great song I don't mind sharing it twice!

at least I'm consistent...

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I'm in the phase of my depressive cycle where I'm angry all the time and I hate everyone and everything. Thankfully, soon enough that will fade and all my anger will be directed inward (as it should be). I've ridden this cycle enough times to know how it will go; not how long it will stay, unfortunately, but you can't know everything LOL

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skisby:
🍀 I have found stoicism & Dokkodo to be very helpful in managing my inner Hulk! Your feelings are choices: You choose anger over calm; you choose fear over courage; you choose misery over joy. Which choice is more productive? Which punishes the chooser and which punishes the circumstance? Remember, circumstances do not change as a result of how angry you get at them. Because circumstances are not people. It’s like that saying about taking poison and expecting the other person to die.
sheashannara:
@skisby that's a very good point, sir
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