I have a huge decision I know I need to make ..
So here is my dilemma .. a few nights ago, I caught my boyfriend in a lie .. he said he was going out which is fine. I was on the phone with him and he says he was going to get off the phone because he was about to be where he was going this, this was at a little after 12 am .. shortly after I would say around 1230 he is tagged in a picture of fb of him with his arm around 2 girls and a girl behind him licking his face, so right off this obviously irritated me, but to make matters worse he calls me at around 2 something in the morning and I ask how his night was (leaving out that I saw the picture) and he says it was okay and that he didn't get to the bar until 1 .. Immediate red flag was raised at that statement seeing as what I just explained further up. The next day I start asking around and I hear that has actually been hitting up girls on fb behind my back .. I have no proof of this, but I have heard this from multiple people. And there are a few other issues, he is pushing me on the school subject I want to go to school, but I can't start til spring, which is automatically going to piss him off .. In the past 8 almost 9 months we've been together I've made a lot of changes for him and now all I hear is that he is cheating .. I really don't know what to do, I can already feel my heart breaking .. Ugh.
So here is my dilemma .. a few nights ago, I caught my boyfriend in a lie .. he said he was going out which is fine. I was on the phone with him and he says he was going to get off the phone because he was about to be where he was going this, this was at a little after 12 am .. shortly after I would say around 1230 he is tagged in a picture of fb of him with his arm around 2 girls and a girl behind him licking his face, so right off this obviously irritated me, but to make matters worse he calls me at around 2 something in the morning and I ask how his night was (leaving out that I saw the picture) and he says it was okay and that he didn't get to the bar until 1 .. Immediate red flag was raised at that statement seeing as what I just explained further up. The next day I start asking around and I hear that has actually been hitting up girls on fb behind my back .. I have no proof of this, but I have heard this from multiple people. And there are a few other issues, he is pushing me on the school subject I want to go to school, but I can't start til spring, which is automatically going to piss him off .. In the past 8 almost 9 months we've been together I've made a lot of changes for him and now all I hear is that he is cheating .. I really don't know what to do, I can already feel my heart breaking .. Ugh.
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mastageneral:
Whats Facebook?
deerail21:
Sounds to me like you deserve a lot better than that sweet heart. I know that my opinion carries little to no weight with you, you don't know me so that's fine, but it's obvious to me that he does not deserve you.