I came across this website... I can't stop laughing. It was taken from www.the-clitoris.com
A Potentially Stressful Search
The process of locating their vaginal orifice is quite challenging and stressful for some girls and women. They have been told they have a vagina but are unable to conceptualize and accept this as fact. "They have told me I have a vagina but I don't believe them." This believe may cause a young woman to experience considerable anxiety when it becomes necessary to insert fingers, tampons, specula, medication, or penises into their vagina. In some cases the inability to grasp the concept of having a vagina leads to a condition called vaginismus. When anxiety and/or vaginismus occurs it is not the fault of the young woman but the things she has learned and experienced.
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Unseen, Unused, and Perhaps Unwanted
If you have never see or used your vagina how can it possible exist? Unlike the urethral and anal orifices, which are used daily from birth onwards, the vagina usually goes unseen and unused for the first ten to thirteen years of a girl's life. Not until a girl experiences her first menstrual period (menarche) does she have much need for a vagina. When menstruation begins a young woman may want to use tampons for comfort, to feel grown up, or because of peer expectation and pressure; perhaps feeling everyone else is using them. The use of sanitary napkins allows some young women to postpone the necessity of confronting their vagina, but this is not the only motive behind their use. If a teen uses sanitary napkins she may not feel compelled to locate her vagina until it comes time for penetrative sex, which may not occur until she is in her twenties, or later.
The vagina is often shrouded in mystery. Far too often young girls are not taught to examine their vulva with a mirror, and the names and locations of all its different parts. In addition, a girl is not likely to see the vulva and vagina of others in use. A girl's mother and peers aren't likely to demonstrate the use of a tampon or help a girl find her vagina. "That would be too icky." She is even less likely to learn from others the pleasures her vulva and vagina can provide during sexual activities, alone and with a partner. She is unlikely to see how easily objects can enter the vagina. Young women seldom have a knowledgebase on which to draw when they seek to explore or use their vagina for the first time.
As a result of the negative messages they receive some girls may not want to have a vagina. If you only know of the pain reportedly associated with first intercourse and childbirth could this result in you not wanting to have a vagina? What if you don't want to be a woman because of their perceived role within your family and community, you are told sex is for a man's pleasure and a woman merely submits to it dutifully, or the idea of partnered sex frightens you? If you are not comfortable with the idea of having a vagina isn't it possible this would increase the likelihood of you not finding one when you went looking?
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But There is No Hole!
The common perception is that there is a "hole down there" that tampons and penises magically find their way into. The following two images demonstrate what we may expect the vaginal "opening" to look like. In these images there appears to be a "dark hole" for things to enter into, and as some fear, get lost.
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A Potentially Stressful Search
The process of locating their vaginal orifice is quite challenging and stressful for some girls and women. They have been told they have a vagina but are unable to conceptualize and accept this as fact. "They have told me I have a vagina but I don't believe them." This believe may cause a young woman to experience considerable anxiety when it becomes necessary to insert fingers, tampons, specula, medication, or penises into their vagina. In some cases the inability to grasp the concept of having a vagina leads to a condition called vaginismus. When anxiety and/or vaginismus occurs it is not the fault of the young woman but the things she has learned and experienced.
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Unseen, Unused, and Perhaps Unwanted
If you have never see or used your vagina how can it possible exist? Unlike the urethral and anal orifices, which are used daily from birth onwards, the vagina usually goes unseen and unused for the first ten to thirteen years of a girl's life. Not until a girl experiences her first menstrual period (menarche) does she have much need for a vagina. When menstruation begins a young woman may want to use tampons for comfort, to feel grown up, or because of peer expectation and pressure; perhaps feeling everyone else is using them. The use of sanitary napkins allows some young women to postpone the necessity of confronting their vagina, but this is not the only motive behind their use. If a teen uses sanitary napkins she may not feel compelled to locate her vagina until it comes time for penetrative sex, which may not occur until she is in her twenties, or later.
The vagina is often shrouded in mystery. Far too often young girls are not taught to examine their vulva with a mirror, and the names and locations of all its different parts. In addition, a girl is not likely to see the vulva and vagina of others in use. A girl's mother and peers aren't likely to demonstrate the use of a tampon or help a girl find her vagina. "That would be too icky." She is even less likely to learn from others the pleasures her vulva and vagina can provide during sexual activities, alone and with a partner. She is unlikely to see how easily objects can enter the vagina. Young women seldom have a knowledgebase on which to draw when they seek to explore or use their vagina for the first time.
As a result of the negative messages they receive some girls may not want to have a vagina. If you only know of the pain reportedly associated with first intercourse and childbirth could this result in you not wanting to have a vagina? What if you don't want to be a woman because of their perceived role within your family and community, you are told sex is for a man's pleasure and a woman merely submits to it dutifully, or the idea of partnered sex frightens you? If you are not comfortable with the idea of having a vagina isn't it possible this would increase the likelihood of you not finding one when you went looking?
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But There is No Hole!
The common perception is that there is a "hole down there" that tampons and penises magically find their way into. The following two images demonstrate what we may expect the vaginal "opening" to look like. In these images there appears to be a "dark hole" for things to enter into, and as some fear, get lost.
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melted:
What's a vagina?
tatertot:
Wow, what a site... All hail thy holy vagina!