Last night, I went to my friend's house, Mau, she's really a good friend, but I hadn't seen her since last year, around the last week of december, well, there was her sister Pam, and we bought some beer to spend the night talking about the news and playing cards. Everything went ok, when I noticed some cuts in Mau's hand and arm, then I asked why does she has these cuts, she told me that she had a discussion with her parents, and she was really mad, so she did that. (That is not the first time she does anything like that, if you would see her left arm, she has some big cut marks, she used to act like that when she was 15 or 16, I met her 2 years ago, she's almoust 20 years old) Well, she told me that she got out totally of control and she did that. Anyway, I noticed her quiet, relaxed...
But, when it was midnight, her dad called me... He told me a lot of things that made me feel really bad, he almoust accussed me about their problems, their family problems, he told me that her daughter is an alcoholic, and that I'm a bad influence to her, and he also told me, that she's using me....
C'mon, IS THAT MY FAULT? Since I met her, I see her one time at the week, we buy some beer (around one six pack for one each of us), and during all time I have met her, she didn't acted bad, she wasn't agressive, deppresive, etc. I know, I know, maybe her dad is right, when he told me about the beer, but... THAT IS HIS PROBLEM, he's an alcoholic also. That family has a big problem, and blame me for being a bad influence, when my friends, grew up in a house where her mom is a nurse that is only 6 or 7 days at home, and that 6 or 7 hours is sleeping, and with their father, unonployed and an alcoholic...
My friend has several cuts in her hand and arm, most of them made it when she was 14,15 or 16... and, blame me for trying to spend a good moment with her, that's not fair...
P.D I wrote a blog, six months ago, I wrote about her sister, she tried to kill herself... I spent 2 hours with her talking about it, I listened her, and she desisted to do that, so, that is what they need, someone for listen them, to take care about them, they grew up alone...
Anyway, I don't feel guilty, maybe alcohol is a bad influence for her, but it was unfair that her father blamed me, when he drink all day...
But, when it was midnight, her dad called me... He told me a lot of things that made me feel really bad, he almoust accussed me about their problems, their family problems, he told me that her daughter is an alcoholic, and that I'm a bad influence to her, and he also told me, that she's using me....
C'mon, IS THAT MY FAULT? Since I met her, I see her one time at the week, we buy some beer (around one six pack for one each of us), and during all time I have met her, she didn't acted bad, she wasn't agressive, deppresive, etc. I know, I know, maybe her dad is right, when he told me about the beer, but... THAT IS HIS PROBLEM, he's an alcoholic also. That family has a big problem, and blame me for being a bad influence, when my friends, grew up in a house where her mom is a nurse that is only 6 or 7 days at home, and that 6 or 7 hours is sleeping, and with their father, unonployed and an alcoholic...
My friend has several cuts in her hand and arm, most of them made it when she was 14,15 or 16... and, blame me for trying to spend a good moment with her, that's not fair...
P.D I wrote a blog, six months ago, I wrote about her sister, she tried to kill herself... I spent 2 hours with her talking about it, I listened her, and she desisted to do that, so, that is what they need, someone for listen them, to take care about them, they grew up alone...
Anyway, I don't feel guilty, maybe alcohol is a bad influence for her, but it was unfair that her father blamed me, when he drink all day...
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