My ex invited me to be with her and her family for Thanksgiving. Now you have to understand our marriage was over in June. Actually, it was over before then. But I knew it was final in June. She walked away after being together for 8 years. I have not spoken to her since July. I usually overreact when she sends me a phone text or an email and say things I later regret. She knows how to push my buttons.
This time I didn't. And I didn't answer the phone when she called. She has manipulated me for the last two years. Tonight I said "ENOUGH!" and gave her the silent treatment. I know she has cheated on me more than once over the past two years. And especially the past few months. I can't prove it. But I just know. She broke my heart. This was my third marriage too. For the both of us.
She was the love of my life and she threw me under the bus. I'm not perfect but I loved her and would have done anything to save our marriage.
But this time she didn't control me. I just didn't respond this time. And for me that was a big step.
This time I didn't. And I didn't answer the phone when she called. She has manipulated me for the last two years. Tonight I said "ENOUGH!" and gave her the silent treatment. I know she has cheated on me more than once over the past two years. And especially the past few months. I can't prove it. But I just know. She broke my heart. This was my third marriage too. For the both of us.
She was the love of my life and she threw me under the bus. I'm not perfect but I loved her and would have done anything to save our marriage.
But this time she didn't control me. I just didn't respond this time. And for me that was a big step.