Still trying to work out my California trip plans.
Got asked to accompany my friend to her ultrasound (only because no one else could go) When I saw her (the baby) I almost cried and she's not even mine. Im such a dork. but I even helped decide on her name so thats awesome.
OK I need opinions.
If someone treats me like complete dogshit every time Im around her, but then asks for (and genuinely needs) my help, am I an idiot for helping, even when I know Im gonna feel like crap because of it?
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If you had a person you honestly cared about and that person was allowing someone to abuse them (emotionally and even physically once), and it's so obvious that even the friend see's it, how am I supposed to respond to that. My friend Jennifer got back with her asshole boyfriend on Friday. On Saturday he cheated on her, and she knows it, then again on monday and tuesday, and she still wants to be with him. I know she's stupid for it and I've told her that (in those words too) but I care about her very much and am torn between my love for her and my anger at her stupidity. No clear question here, just opinions on the situation would be appreciated..
Im gonna do a few more I Like/Want/Hate lists soon. I like those. What should I do them on (themes).
The past couple night I have had a couple amazing conversations with some amazing people.
OK Im done for now, Im tired.
Zechariah
Got asked to accompany my friend to her ultrasound (only because no one else could go) When I saw her (the baby) I almost cried and she's not even mine. Im such a dork. but I even helped decide on her name so thats awesome.
OK I need opinions.
If someone treats me like complete dogshit every time Im around her, but then asks for (and genuinely needs) my help, am I an idiot for helping, even when I know Im gonna feel like crap because of it?
-and-
If you had a person you honestly cared about and that person was allowing someone to abuse them (emotionally and even physically once), and it's so obvious that even the friend see's it, how am I supposed to respond to that. My friend Jennifer got back with her asshole boyfriend on Friday. On Saturday he cheated on her, and she knows it, then again on monday and tuesday, and she still wants to be with him. I know she's stupid for it and I've told her that (in those words too) but I care about her very much and am torn between my love for her and my anger at her stupidity. No clear question here, just opinions on the situation would be appreciated..
Im gonna do a few more I Like/Want/Hate lists soon. I like those. What should I do them on (themes).
The past couple night I have had a couple amazing conversations with some amazing people.
OK Im done for now, Im tired.
Zechariah
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And everyone needs distractions once in a while, just not while studying for finals
You are not an idiot for helping, I would probalby do the same thing (or does that mean I too am an idiot?)
And I was once that girl you are talking about, and as much as her stupidity may hurt, she will one day wake up and realize that she needs to be away from him. She will need you once she does realize this though, cause it hurts more than anything.
[Edited on Jul 25, 2003]