My son leaves to the NWT tomorrow and I have been trying to call his father so that he can say goodbye, but he hasn't been returning my calls. I leave shortly after my son does, and we aren't coming back here. He hasn't seen or spoken with Christopher in over 2 months now. I can't believe that someone who I married and who my son called dad for 6 years would just totally ignore him! I am so hurt for my son, u don't know how many times he's been crying for his dad; and get this - his dad lives in the same city as we do! He just completely abandoned his son, and that has me really worried for my son, is this something that will always hurt him, and how will this affect him when he is an adult and in relationships?......I am very hurt and so fucking mad that my asshole exhusband would do this! How could I have married someone like this, and why didn't I know that he was capable of this?
It's not your fault for his actions...just continue to show your son the love he deserves from you!