Serious question for the ladies. I'm 51, divorced and a total dweeb when it comes to asking a lady if she might like to go out. Most of the women my age, either look much older, or just have not taken care of themselves. While I realize I am not the model of manhood, I don't think I'm grotesque. Are there younger ladies who are genuinely interested in older men? Not just for the $? And a little help on what NOT to do, or say, would be appreciated.