Zagan Self-Help tactics
To tell you the truth, I am young yet; there are indeed many things out there than I know nothing about, many things, which I do not yet fully comprehend. My experiences are limited, many of which different from that of what falls within the realm of normalcy, but limited nonetheless. I am still learning new things everyday, and probably these revelations of knowledge will continue every day until my final rest, of this I am most sure. However one of the most important pieces of information I have divined thus far, is that we are in control over our own lives.
Although I have been taught otherwise from a very young age that people as individuals have very limited control over their circumstances and their lives, I have found from experience that this is not so. They say that ninety percent of the shit that goes on around us has nothing to do with us and the ten percent that does we are powerless over, although this piece of bullshit may help many people, it has not done thus for myself. In drug rehab they tried to tell me to relinquish my life and my will over to the care of god and let him "steer the wheel". This has to be the most bogus piece of logic I have ever come across.
Myself being a confirmed Agnostic bordering on Atheist, am completely unable to do this feat, and thankfully was totally unable to do so. I have found those people who give their lives up to "fate" are completely weak individuals, and have no personal insight and have completely stunted their inner growth.
It is unfortunate that many people are not able to grasp the power of the psychological and physical mind, and the power of intention and suggestion. Truly one of our most powerful tools in life is our own mind, how we view ourselves, and the power of belief. If we believe we have control over our own lives and our own future, it becomes that much closer to being truth than if we don't.
First of all there is suggestion and belief, I have found that the even the most comely people whom believe themselves to be worth wile and beautiful often times are viewed in the same light by others as they view themselves. On the other hand, I have met many really good looking people, who don't think they are worth it, and who think they are ugly, and the fact that they think that way, makes them that much less appealing to me and to others.
Some people may scoff at this bit of logic, but I myself have often found it to be true. It is how you view your self that often times helps finalize the way that others view you. This is one of many ways that you can change the circumstances of your life. If you change your perception of yourself, others people's perception of you will obviously change as well.
It might be hard to change a set perception of yourself, it was hard for me when I first tried it. For the longest time I considered myself to be a weak and useless individual. This of course was picked up upon by others who used my perception of myself to their own advantages. It is because of the fact that it is so hard to change how you view yourself over night that I have put in the "fake it till you make it" clause.
Fake it till you make it, is a way in which you can pretend that you are worth it, beautiful, smart, worth wile, or whatever trait you want to see in yourself. Its by pretending that you are this thing that eventually it takes hold of you and you actually really do see yourself in that light. It really does work, and I have used this many times in order to better myself and better my life.
Another way to exert control over your own life is by intention, by intention we can truly divine what we want to do with ourselves and with our life. If you have an idea, lets take the Idea "I want to be a Rock Star" well knowing that this is what you want to do takes you that much closer to doing it. Now the idea of being a Rock star might be a bit unrealistic to many people, but if it is truly what you want to do, don't let yourself believe that it is unrealistic, because having doubts just makes it that much harder to achieve your goal.
Okay so this is it for Zagan self help today yeah I know it all sounds a bit cheesy, but it has worked for me, and if it works for somebody like me than it can work for anybody.
To tell you the truth, I am young yet; there are indeed many things out there than I know nothing about, many things, which I do not yet fully comprehend. My experiences are limited, many of which different from that of what falls within the realm of normalcy, but limited nonetheless. I am still learning new things everyday, and probably these revelations of knowledge will continue every day until my final rest, of this I am most sure. However one of the most important pieces of information I have divined thus far, is that we are in control over our own lives.
Although I have been taught otherwise from a very young age that people as individuals have very limited control over their circumstances and their lives, I have found from experience that this is not so. They say that ninety percent of the shit that goes on around us has nothing to do with us and the ten percent that does we are powerless over, although this piece of bullshit may help many people, it has not done thus for myself. In drug rehab they tried to tell me to relinquish my life and my will over to the care of god and let him "steer the wheel". This has to be the most bogus piece of logic I have ever come across.
Myself being a confirmed Agnostic bordering on Atheist, am completely unable to do this feat, and thankfully was totally unable to do so. I have found those people who give their lives up to "fate" are completely weak individuals, and have no personal insight and have completely stunted their inner growth.
It is unfortunate that many people are not able to grasp the power of the psychological and physical mind, and the power of intention and suggestion. Truly one of our most powerful tools in life is our own mind, how we view ourselves, and the power of belief. If we believe we have control over our own lives and our own future, it becomes that much closer to being truth than if we don't.
First of all there is suggestion and belief, I have found that the even the most comely people whom believe themselves to be worth wile and beautiful often times are viewed in the same light by others as they view themselves. On the other hand, I have met many really good looking people, who don't think they are worth it, and who think they are ugly, and the fact that they think that way, makes them that much less appealing to me and to others.
Some people may scoff at this bit of logic, but I myself have often found it to be true. It is how you view your self that often times helps finalize the way that others view you. This is one of many ways that you can change the circumstances of your life. If you change your perception of yourself, others people's perception of you will obviously change as well.
It might be hard to change a set perception of yourself, it was hard for me when I first tried it. For the longest time I considered myself to be a weak and useless individual. This of course was picked up upon by others who used my perception of myself to their own advantages. It is because of the fact that it is so hard to change how you view yourself over night that I have put in the "fake it till you make it" clause.
Fake it till you make it, is a way in which you can pretend that you are worth it, beautiful, smart, worth wile, or whatever trait you want to see in yourself. Its by pretending that you are this thing that eventually it takes hold of you and you actually really do see yourself in that light. It really does work, and I have used this many times in order to better myself and better my life.
Another way to exert control over your own life is by intention, by intention we can truly divine what we want to do with ourselves and with our life. If you have an idea, lets take the Idea "I want to be a Rock Star" well knowing that this is what you want to do takes you that much closer to doing it. Now the idea of being a Rock star might be a bit unrealistic to many people, but if it is truly what you want to do, don't let yourself believe that it is unrealistic, because having doubts just makes it that much harder to achieve your goal.
Okay so this is it for Zagan self help today yeah I know it all sounds a bit cheesy, but it has worked for me, and if it works for somebody like me than it can work for anybody.
I go there every year to meet with my friend and it really is the most unjudgmental place I've ever been.
I find it hard to understand why there is so much prejadice in countries where diversity is so ripe.