I'm caught in a catch 22. There's this cute girl, who is stalking me. Awesome, right? I've been getting all kinds of texts, some of which have been very, very explicit. Example: "if u ever wanted a discreet fuck buddy. then yes, thats what i wanted al along. u seem fun and wouldnt be afraid 2 try new things aka anal or otherr." That's an actual text from her. So, I'm being pursued by a woman, who seems fun, and is experimental in the bedroom, which I appreciate. Life seems great, right?
Well, it would be, except that I've been told that she has a totally non lethal, yet totally incurable STD. Yikes. I mean, if it weren't for that, I'd be all over this girl. And I'm very confused, because I'm not even positive that she has an STD. I heard this from a friend of a friend.
If I ask her, she could say no. But then, she might be lying. I do know that she has been with a lot of guys. Which I'm fine with, but I'm not so fine with getting a disease. Then, throw into the mix the fact that it's been seven months since I've been to bed with a woman. My body, specifically, my penis, is begging for a shot, while my mind, at least the logical part of it, is screaming stay away.
And finally, the more I try to ignore her advances, the more determined she becomes. I feel like I'm being seduced in a porno flick. She's very blunt, very explicit, and on more than one occasion, has felt me up in a public setting.
So needless to say, I'm confused, horny, scared, and have no idea what to do.
Well, it would be, except that I've been told that she has a totally non lethal, yet totally incurable STD. Yikes. I mean, if it weren't for that, I'd be all over this girl. And I'm very confused, because I'm not even positive that she has an STD. I heard this from a friend of a friend.
If I ask her, she could say no. But then, she might be lying. I do know that she has been with a lot of guys. Which I'm fine with, but I'm not so fine with getting a disease. Then, throw into the mix the fact that it's been seven months since I've been to bed with a woman. My body, specifically, my penis, is begging for a shot, while my mind, at least the logical part of it, is screaming stay away.
And finally, the more I try to ignore her advances, the more determined she becomes. I feel like I'm being seduced in a porno flick. She's very blunt, very explicit, and on more than one occasion, has felt me up in a public setting.
So needless to say, I'm confused, horny, scared, and have no idea what to do.
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If you want, tell her its your policy to test with new partners, both of you go to planned parenthood, and then ask to have your results printed. exchange them.
that works. with only a small window of opportunity for her or you catching something between when you get tested and when you eff. if you do.
if she gets offended, or mad. well, nuts to her. no sex for people who can't respect their own bodies, let alone yours....
it is truly wonderful here