So my friend/ex girlfriend e-mails me yesterday after not responding to any kind of communication in 2 weeks, no merry x-mas, no happy new years, no anything and says that she is having a hard time right now. You know I do understand what it feels like to be going through hard times but completely blowing off someone you talked to every day for 2 years is not a good way to go about it if you expect somone to understand. Anyways, I'm not mad at her, I can't be. Care for her too much but in a completely different way than I used to. It was just on my mind all day so figured I would write it down and get it out. Moving onto single's life, I just got back from a bar with a couple friends I havent seen in awhile and didn't expect one beer to give me a buzz, maybe not a buzz but that lackidaisical mood that only one puts you in before starting to pick you up. Its only 9pm and I feel like passing out for the night. But anyways, getting off the subject, we were talking about why females enjoy expensive diamonds and gold soo much. Don't get me wrong, there are alot of you out there that could give a rats ass about either or, but for the rest of you, is it a sign of love that someone will spend $3,500 on a tiny shiny rock? If I were a girl I would want a cracker jack ring but would make him find me a specific one or pick a ring out of a 25cent machine and make him lug a bag of quarters in there to get it for me. If he gets it on the first shot, lucky basterd got off easy. We could take that $3,500 dollars and go on a journey to South America or take a cruise. I guess thats why we have psychologists. Oh well.
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montreuxcat:
Hiya. Sorry about the girlfriend thing.. that's shitty. if anything, I hate lack of communication. And then you feel, like, "so what, you don't talk to me and then when you do all you want to do is get my sympathy?" Oh well. Girlfriends are weird. So are boyfriends, but hey. About the ring thing.. (ooh, rhyming)... yeah, I don't get the diamond/etc kinda deal... I just want something lovely or interesting or personal. I know someone who tattooed their ring! That might bother me, though. Oh well... I have a while to think about it.
nova_____:
I was having the same conversation just a minute ago with a frend of mine. This nutjob chick that he's sort of seeing, sort of not, because she's a little bit of a stalker, keeps demanding gifts from him. The other day she says to him, "you have 24 hours to get me a gift." He's like, what the fuck is this? That chick is about 45 years old, and she just got a whole shit load of plastc surgery on her face, so she doesn't even have any feeling or anything. She keeps comparing herself to all these other chicks and being insane. One time, my friend told me that he left hs checkbook out, and she took one of his checks and made a payment on her mercedes out of his account. My friend, however, is friends with the presidnt of his bank, and even though the check had cleared long ago, he went ahead and had it cancelled dand sent back! HAHAHA!