I just feel like completely going over my life. Not sure if anyone will read but oh well it's good to let everything out sometimes right?
Born in Morristown, NJ. Wasn't in Jersey long. My mom had me while still in high school. She took two years of college along with two jobs (one was at the M&M factory in Hackettstown, and I was practically raised by my grandparents. Mom and I moved to Mansfield, NJ at an apartment when I was 5. She was dating a guy named Jason since right before I was born. She told me that he was my dad, so obviously I called him dad. I never asked why he didn't officially live with us. As a child (between 4 and 6), while my 'dad' was babysitting me at his own apartment, I witnessed him cheating on my mother over and over again for years. Being that young, I had no idea what was happening. I told mom in a normal conversation that I thought it was weird dad was hugging Tori naked. So of course they broke up, then got back together a little later. Mom worked at M&M Mars since she was 14 (part time then full time), so she got enough raises to be able to support us in a home. We moved to East Stroudsburg, PA when I was 6. We were there for 8 years. Her and Jason finally broke up, and she told me he wasn't really my dad. My grandparents bought a camper and brought it to my home in PA. They lived with us for about two years to help take care of me. Mom stayed single for a few years, with an occasional 'dates', which is understandable otherwise she'd go more insane. Then she met a guy at the bar, Rich. He lived not too far from where our Jersey home was. The two of them dated for roughly 3-4 years. He was a huge drunk. I don't think I ever saw him sober. After the 1st year mom was scared to leave him because he threatened her multiple times. He was a crack and heroine addict and had drugs all over the house. He was also abusive. Mostly to her, barely to me. Finally mom kicked him out. A week later, a mutual friend that my mom and him made near our PA home had a cousin, Ron, that mom originally didn't like, was there for her and talked to her. At the time he just wanted to get some, but that night Rich broke in, and I don't remember much, but I do remember Ron's face covered in blood and he needed stitches, and Rich (he was a HUGE man), got his with a baseball bat. Cops said it was mom's fault for sleeping with a guy while still with Rich even though she said multiple times she dumped Rich a week before but he was so drunk he thought they were still together. So Ron stayed with my mom. 3 months later mom is pregnant. soon after we find out she's having triplets. 2 girls and 1 boy. My parents got married soon after the triplets were born (March 9th, 2005). So yeah Ron is my step dad. 8th grade I had the biggest crush on this girl Sam. She was beautiful as can be! Of course, she had a boyfriend. Well my step cousin (who had a crush on me....creepy...) liked to be nosy so she told Sam. Sam then said to me that she found me cute and 'if she didn't have a boyfriend she would date me'. I, of all people, know how old this phrase is. But I really liked her so I didn't care. I kept flirting with her for over a year. Her and her boyfriend FINALLY break up. The moment I hear it, I get ready to ask her out. I was so nervous. I go to lunch and walk towards her table to ask her out, until I see an old friend of mine's arm around her. It tore me up. I told her off the next time I saw her, and ignored her for 4 months. After a while she apologized to me and said she left him because he was an A-hole (figures), but of course she got with another guy soon after (not trying to make her sound like a whore, she just doesn't like being alone). But suddenly SHE asked ME to the semi-formal dance. I said no at first, but she kept trying for about a month until I said yes. We went together and it was pretty fun. I kissed her on the cheek and that's all that happened. The moment the economy started sucking (2007), and gangs got bad in PA, and since it's just plain cold up North, we moved to NC. At first I hated it. It was really hot (moved in June), there were farms everywhere, and I just thought 'oh lordy I'm in redneck land!'. But it turned out very well. I had a great education. It was much safer for myself and the triplets to live, SO MUCH CHEAPER, etc. I met a girl, Jess, on the bus after my second month freshman year (started high school the same year I moved). I didn't find her attractive, her voice and half were annoying, and she was socially awkward. I don't remember why, but I was into her. We dated for about 8 months. Right after her, I was seeing my friend Alyssa. We never officially dated, but we were just friends with benefits. I really liked her though, I just wasn't ready to date at the time. She got tired of waiting and she dated a guy for 3 years (they died in a car accident when she was 4 months pregnant in 2010 :/). Then sophomore year I dated a girl a year older than me, Andi. I was a virgin, she screwed a LOT of dudes. She had a car and parents that didn't care, I just got my permit and had strict parents. Needless to say it didn't work out. Started talking to a girl, Sarah. She was the most beautiful woman I ever laid my eyes upon! We started dating a week after we met. We were each other's first everything. I loved her dearly. The first year was perfect. The next six months...not so much...turns out she had Borderline and Sex addiction. She got on every drug you could imagine, then slept with her drug dealer, then told me, then lied and said she was force, then lied and said she was too high to remember, etc. So obviously we broke up and she went to multiple mental facilities, and was forced to go to a foster home. A year later she contacted me saying she loved me. Well it's a really long story but she lied multiple times, as usual. We still talk and she still thinks we could be together forever. And she's still beautiful and still has a piece of my head I wish she wouldn't have. Nobody has compared to her (yet) :/. Next I did a lot of dating, and random sex. I dated my best friend since freshman year, Holly. It was a good relationship, but what stinks is that we aren't good friends anymore (figures). I got accepted to Full Sail University majoring in Game Development. I love it. I moved to Florida for Full Sail, and didn't look back (much). Whenever I visit, I typically have a few women who I mess around with. I'm respectful though. We agree that nothing is serious it's all fun. So yeah that's my life. I skipped a bunch of stuff but that's just because I'm tired and want to sleep xD
Born in Morristown, NJ. Wasn't in Jersey long. My mom had me while still in high school. She took two years of college along with two jobs (one was at the M&M factory in Hackettstown, and I was practically raised by my grandparents. Mom and I moved to Mansfield, NJ at an apartment when I was 5. She was dating a guy named Jason since right before I was born. She told me that he was my dad, so obviously I called him dad. I never asked why he didn't officially live with us. As a child (between 4 and 6), while my 'dad' was babysitting me at his own apartment, I witnessed him cheating on my mother over and over again for years. Being that young, I had no idea what was happening. I told mom in a normal conversation that I thought it was weird dad was hugging Tori naked. So of course they broke up, then got back together a little later. Mom worked at M&M Mars since she was 14 (part time then full time), so she got enough raises to be able to support us in a home. We moved to East Stroudsburg, PA when I was 6. We were there for 8 years. Her and Jason finally broke up, and she told me he wasn't really my dad. My grandparents bought a camper and brought it to my home in PA. They lived with us for about two years to help take care of me. Mom stayed single for a few years, with an occasional 'dates', which is understandable otherwise she'd go more insane. Then she met a guy at the bar, Rich. He lived not too far from where our Jersey home was. The two of them dated for roughly 3-4 years. He was a huge drunk. I don't think I ever saw him sober. After the 1st year mom was scared to leave him because he threatened her multiple times. He was a crack and heroine addict and had drugs all over the house. He was also abusive. Mostly to her, barely to me. Finally mom kicked him out. A week later, a mutual friend that my mom and him made near our PA home had a cousin, Ron, that mom originally didn't like, was there for her and talked to her. At the time he just wanted to get some, but that night Rich broke in, and I don't remember much, but I do remember Ron's face covered in blood and he needed stitches, and Rich (he was a HUGE man), got his with a baseball bat. Cops said it was mom's fault for sleeping with a guy while still with Rich even though she said multiple times she dumped Rich a week before but he was so drunk he thought they were still together. So Ron stayed with my mom. 3 months later mom is pregnant. soon after we find out she's having triplets. 2 girls and 1 boy. My parents got married soon after the triplets were born (March 9th, 2005). So yeah Ron is my step dad. 8th grade I had the biggest crush on this girl Sam. She was beautiful as can be! Of course, she had a boyfriend. Well my step cousin (who had a crush on me....creepy...) liked to be nosy so she told Sam. Sam then said to me that she found me cute and 'if she didn't have a boyfriend she would date me'. I, of all people, know how old this phrase is. But I really liked her so I didn't care. I kept flirting with her for over a year. Her and her boyfriend FINALLY break up. The moment I hear it, I get ready to ask her out. I was so nervous. I go to lunch and walk towards her table to ask her out, until I see an old friend of mine's arm around her. It tore me up. I told her off the next time I saw her, and ignored her for 4 months. After a while she apologized to me and said she left him because he was an A-hole (figures), but of course she got with another guy soon after (not trying to make her sound like a whore, she just doesn't like being alone). But suddenly SHE asked ME to the semi-formal dance. I said no at first, but she kept trying for about a month until I said yes. We went together and it was pretty fun. I kissed her on the cheek and that's all that happened. The moment the economy started sucking (2007), and gangs got bad in PA, and since it's just plain cold up North, we moved to NC. At first I hated it. It was really hot (moved in June), there were farms everywhere, and I just thought 'oh lordy I'm in redneck land!'. But it turned out very well. I had a great education. It was much safer for myself and the triplets to live, SO MUCH CHEAPER, etc. I met a girl, Jess, on the bus after my second month freshman year (started high school the same year I moved). I didn't find her attractive, her voice and half were annoying, and she was socially awkward. I don't remember why, but I was into her. We dated for about 8 months. Right after her, I was seeing my friend Alyssa. We never officially dated, but we were just friends with benefits. I really liked her though, I just wasn't ready to date at the time. She got tired of waiting and she dated a guy for 3 years (they died in a car accident when she was 4 months pregnant in 2010 :/). Then sophomore year I dated a girl a year older than me, Andi. I was a virgin, she screwed a LOT of dudes. She had a car and parents that didn't care, I just got my permit and had strict parents. Needless to say it didn't work out. Started talking to a girl, Sarah. She was the most beautiful woman I ever laid my eyes upon! We started dating a week after we met. We were each other's first everything. I loved her dearly. The first year was perfect. The next six months...not so much...turns out she had Borderline and Sex addiction. She got on every drug you could imagine, then slept with her drug dealer, then told me, then lied and said she was force, then lied and said she was too high to remember, etc. So obviously we broke up and she went to multiple mental facilities, and was forced to go to a foster home. A year later she contacted me saying she loved me. Well it's a really long story but she lied multiple times, as usual. We still talk and she still thinks we could be together forever. And she's still beautiful and still has a piece of my head I wish she wouldn't have. Nobody has compared to her (yet) :/. Next I did a lot of dating, and random sex. I dated my best friend since freshman year, Holly. It was a good relationship, but what stinks is that we aren't good friends anymore (figures). I got accepted to Full Sail University majoring in Game Development. I love it. I moved to Florida for Full Sail, and didn't look back (much). Whenever I visit, I typically have a few women who I mess around with. I'm respectful though. We agree that nothing is serious it's all fun. So yeah that's my life. I skipped a bunch of stuff but that's just because I'm tired and want to sleep xD