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Monday Nov 21, 2005

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Okay... so my girlfriend's ex-boyfriend just died. I, for one, couldn't be happier. This guy was a real piece of work... your average Juggalo, white trash, goth, wigger, druggie type. He was dumb as a rock and treated her like shit when they were together. Well, he and a friend were out driving, smashed into a pole, and sliced his brain in half.

Now at first she told me that they were drinking, and were off to get more beer when it happened, but we got into an argument about it earlier and all that changed... supposedly the driver was sober and they were just dropping friends off. Well she's pissed off cause I'm tired of hearing about the prick, cause drunk or sober, the stupid shit deserved to die. He was a druggie piece of shit that was probably going to end up a criminal anyway. One less prick I have to worry about right?

Now I wasn't an asshole or anything about it at first, I let her cry and all that, and kept my mouth shut, but now its getting on my nerves and I'm sick of hearing her defend him when I express my opinion. I don't mind her grieving, but sitting back and listening to how much she misses him, and loved him, after a few days before him offing himself she told me how much she regretted knowing him, is pissing me off. Am I being a dick, or should I stick to my guns?

... Yea, I know this isn't Love Line or anything, but I don't really have anywhere else to turn at the moment.
nikonphoto80:
No offence but it sounds like your being harsh, I dont feel that any one needs to die except for the people who have killed and raped others, I mean was he coming to your house and starting trouble with you ever day, was he beating on your girlfriend! I dont think you have the right to tell some one who they can and cant cry over, he may have not been a saint but he was still apart of her life at some point and people need to deal with stuff in different ways, I think if you love her you need to let her cry on you and be there for her so she can get over it!

i have had almost 15 if not more friends die some of them were good people and some of them may not have been but it was always hard on me!
Nov 21, 2005
blackspot:
Well being that I'm closer to the situation more then anyone else here I can personally say that you're not being harsh at all. He was a peice of shit that got what was coming to him, I for one don't blame you one bit for being tired of hearing about it. You did more then enough by sitting by her and listening to her grieve, but she needs to understand that you hearing about how she misses him and all that bullllshit just isn't cool.

Her fault, not yours
Nov 21, 2005

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