Frustration

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I am a EXTREMELY personal person, and ESPECIALLY when it comes to any kind of business adventure. From small drama to larger court related issues, I keep it ALL private.

I have always been like this, growing up in a felon household, growing up to become apart of the prion system here in the states, going through drug related court cases and through it all it is INSTILLED in me to not talk.

Why??

Well besides the obvious ( i think ) to never incriminate yourself, my BIGGEST reason for never sharing drama or even speaking about issues I've taken to court and won is because I would never want to damage my own or others reputations. I truly feel like the issues I may have with someone have NO BEARING on anything they do with another business adventure, nor do issues with one person roll over to the next strictly from anger ( in my opinion )

This being said, I have now been through a court case ( WON), been through the "fight" stage of dealing with someone unprofessional and am currently going through even more court related things to insure my judgement from the courts is seen from this individual. I now feel ( my own personal opinion, some evidence ) that said person is trying to defame and ruin the image created through "he said, she said" statements without backup.

My OVERALL question would be if your name was being used negatively and effecting your work/ business by an individual that is upset with being in the wrong, what do you do?

Do you stay quiet and stick to yourself like usual?

>> I will say that I have tried to act/say nothing happened to whomever I am trying to work with, however I am seeing that these individuals either ignore, read and leave or associate with said individual and magically ignore me afterwards <<

For this very reason I am asking all of my fellow babes, members, friends and photographers to please ( kindly ) share your thoughts on what should or shouldn't be done, your own experiences, ideas, helpful uplifting words or just help in general on what would you do?

Thanks for my ted talk

littlejohn22:
I find that you keep your mouth shut those people that defame you are revealed to be the frauds they are. Then they move on. You stay true to yourself, stay strong
rlochraven:
That can be hard when others are 'pulled away' from you because the other person can't accept the reality of the situation (they were wrong).  You have to stay true to yourself and continue to use the the legal system to enforce the judgment in your favor.  If the other person continues, capture it and go back after them.  As to the others, if they are so easily swayed, were they really someone you would want to associate.  I've unfortunately been through that and it's never easy.  Be yourself, stand-up for yourself and don't let others bring you down.

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