I guess I should say something. I don't know where to begin. I 'll make this story as short as possible.
I meet a girl around 2002-2003. We become friends. I supposedly betray this girl and she goes on a war path.
This war path has amazingly being going since then. Pretty much every internet account I have own in the past tens has been...... molested by her.
First there was my live journal. She took a very painful breakup and made it worse. Let's just say she made me look like a lunatic, and I lost a lot of friends. Every day there would be a journal entry that I didn't write. It continued to happen no matter how many times I changed the password. Eventually I just got tired of it gave up.
Then there was myspace. She started claiming that I was suicidal and sending my friends threaten messages. I was also getting threatening calls shit in the mail. Finally I got a restraining order and things stopped.
Then I joined the Navy. A year passed. I get this message from A that she was sorry for everything and she wanted to be friends again. Apparently she joined the Navy.
Then comes Facebook and Youtube. Somewhere around here I get accused of flirting with a boyfriend online and I start getting harassed on Facebook. Everyday. Until I got tired of it and stopped using Facebook for a while.
A sign into Facebook on day to find half of my friends deleted, most of my photos deleted ( most I couldn't even recover) and tons of messages in my inbox. Apparently if she wasn't plain pissing people off, she was claiming I was suicidal. Once again I have to put a bunch of fires out.
Then come a message through a "friend" (because I blocked her from everything). That she wanted to be friends again. Sigh.
When I was being emotional abused everyday, she would find my private entries and post them on Facebook.
Around my birthday last year I once again log in to Facebook to find suicidal messages, and photos removed. Around that time she got an SG account. I confirm her as a friend, not knowing who it was. Now that I think about it, she was actually very nice.
A few months later I found out she went on my Facebook account and picked a fight with one of my Jersey friends ( who no longer speaks to me)
By a stroke of god knows what, she got stationed where my husband's stationed. She started leaving notes on my dog's collar and on my house. Got another restraining order.
So we are caught up. There is much more to all this and there are a few other people involved, but that is the jist of it.
Recently, my SG account, the ONLY account I had left..... was ...... "messed with".
A went into my account, started deleting friends, and went on random people's profiles, found their contact info, and went on the suicidal bullshit. I am surprised I didn't have a police officer show up at my door.
This is what burns me. My ferret died. I didn't go on any internet site with this information until the late afternoon, because I wasn't near a computer. I told TWO people via text messages. Well apparently one, and I know who, Told A.
A goes on THIS SITE of all sites on my account, goes into the Girls only group, and proceeds to go on a rant about how I STARVED MY FERRET TO DEATH. Which makes me look like I am a neglectful owner who doesn't deserve my pets. Either A or the group owner booted me out of the group, so thankfully I can't read the apparent backlash from Tomoe's post. The only reason why I know this happened was because someone contacted me on Facebook. And of course to add insult to injury, she deleted almost all my groups, and some more of my friends.
Welp, guess who violated a restraining order??? That's right. She's hopefully going to jail, and if she does, that's pretty much a wrap for the Navy.
The point of this post??? To first apologize if you were targeted. But also to say. I am fucking tired of it. SG was the las place I thought I would be unsafe. It was the last place I thought she could make me look like a psycho.
I don't know whether or not to say good bye to this place; but she kind of ruined it for me.
I meet a girl around 2002-2003. We become friends. I supposedly betray this girl and she goes on a war path.
This war path has amazingly being going since then. Pretty much every internet account I have own in the past tens has been...... molested by her.
First there was my live journal. She took a very painful breakup and made it worse. Let's just say she made me look like a lunatic, and I lost a lot of friends. Every day there would be a journal entry that I didn't write. It continued to happen no matter how many times I changed the password. Eventually I just got tired of it gave up.
Then there was myspace. She started claiming that I was suicidal and sending my friends threaten messages. I was also getting threatening calls shit in the mail. Finally I got a restraining order and things stopped.
Then I joined the Navy. A year passed. I get this message from A that she was sorry for everything and she wanted to be friends again. Apparently she joined the Navy.
Then comes Facebook and Youtube. Somewhere around here I get accused of flirting with a boyfriend online and I start getting harassed on Facebook. Everyday. Until I got tired of it and stopped using Facebook for a while.
A sign into Facebook on day to find half of my friends deleted, most of my photos deleted ( most I couldn't even recover) and tons of messages in my inbox. Apparently if she wasn't plain pissing people off, she was claiming I was suicidal. Once again I have to put a bunch of fires out.
Then come a message through a "friend" (because I blocked her from everything). That she wanted to be friends again. Sigh.
When I was being emotional abused everyday, she would find my private entries and post them on Facebook.
Around my birthday last year I once again log in to Facebook to find suicidal messages, and photos removed. Around that time she got an SG account. I confirm her as a friend, not knowing who it was. Now that I think about it, she was actually very nice.
A few months later I found out she went on my Facebook account and picked a fight with one of my Jersey friends ( who no longer speaks to me)
By a stroke of god knows what, she got stationed where my husband's stationed. She started leaving notes on my dog's collar and on my house. Got another restraining order.
So we are caught up. There is much more to all this and there are a few other people involved, but that is the jist of it.
Recently, my SG account, the ONLY account I had left..... was ...... "messed with".
A went into my account, started deleting friends, and went on random people's profiles, found their contact info, and went on the suicidal bullshit. I am surprised I didn't have a police officer show up at my door.
This is what burns me. My ferret died. I didn't go on any internet site with this information until the late afternoon, because I wasn't near a computer. I told TWO people via text messages. Well apparently one, and I know who, Told A.
A goes on THIS SITE of all sites on my account, goes into the Girls only group, and proceeds to go on a rant about how I STARVED MY FERRET TO DEATH. Which makes me look like I am a neglectful owner who doesn't deserve my pets. Either A or the group owner booted me out of the group, so thankfully I can't read the apparent backlash from Tomoe's post. The only reason why I know this happened was because someone contacted me on Facebook. And of course to add insult to injury, she deleted almost all my groups, and some more of my friends.
Welp, guess who violated a restraining order??? That's right. She's hopefully going to jail, and if she does, that's pretty much a wrap for the Navy.
The point of this post??? To first apologize if you were targeted. But also to say. I am fucking tired of it. SG was the las place I thought I would be unsafe. It was the last place I thought she could make me look like a psycho.
I don't know whether or not to say good bye to this place; but she kind of ruined it for me.
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As far as this girl goes .. Just, it's baffling what an asshole people can be. The way they hang onto and foster these feelings and feel entitled to the ruin and destruction of your well-being. And kind of, your life. No matter what you "did" in the very beginning, which I'm sure was nothing, .. it's never justified.
These people are so detached from reality -- it's a scary and anxiety-ridden situation. Because there's no reasoning with them. So I feel for you -- I hope you can someday get completely, thoroughly away from this.. You don't deserve the trauma.
I hope you don't leave.