im sad because im starting to realise that lukes weed habbit is becoming a problem for me. i dont feel sexy and beautiful and desired because he can't bothered desiring me when he's stonned. and it's starting to cut a bit that my boyfriend can keep his hands off me, does keep his hands off me, is happy to keep his hands off me because he has weed. weed weed weed. so why would he need a sex drive. and the fact that these tendencies aren't necissarily new in our relationship. maybe i'm in a big rut. and maybe his rut has become my rut. it was his birthday this weekend. we didn't do anything. we went out with his mates, we stayed in with his mates, we stayed in and smoked weed and drank beer and had a bbq. and it all stayed g rated. he turned twenty. and it makes it worse that i hate that a guy not wanting me makes me feel this shit. but he's not just a guy. he's my boyfriend. has been since i was 16. he's the one i chose to waste my time with and yeh i dno. i spose i'm just thinking about things at the moment. 
thebigdirty:
Whether or not you have I'm not sure, but of course the best plan of attack here is: talk to him. I've had mates in the same postion (without the issue of sex drive) and this has all been in the last year or so and all they needed was a talking to (especially if there is more than just you thinking that). I could've let my mate go downhill until he was at the bottom, and hell I couldve very well followed him but our biggest problem was communication. Anyway I'm probably rambling here but I hope it works out for you, stay positive! 