Last night was a night of phone conversations, it seems.
First, "Meggy the Flakey" showed up to class, but left shortly after it started. I text messaged her to call me after class, which she did. We played a little bit of catch up, but I didn't mention anything about Whitney to her. I let her mostly talk about how she might not be so flakey anymore because of bullshit she had enough of. So, I left it at "don't be a stranger."
Afterwards, Randy calls me up to see what's up. I wind up talking to him for a while about Meggy the Flakey and, especially, Whitney. He basically just let me vent my frustrations with her and didn't really offer me real advice.
Guess who calls me a little while after I hang up with Randy? Whitney. We talked for so long about "us." I basically told her that I don't want to deal with a raging pothead and she needs to reconsider what she's doing with her life. It feels wrong of me to pass judgment on her and tell her how to live her life, but when I know we both want to be together we have to make compromises and adjustments to have harmony in the relationship.
I guess time will tell whether or not her mindless partying habits will fade to a manageable level. How can you honestly know if someone means "I love you" when they're drunk or high most of the time?
First, "Meggy the Flakey" showed up to class, but left shortly after it started. I text messaged her to call me after class, which she did. We played a little bit of catch up, but I didn't mention anything about Whitney to her. I let her mostly talk about how she might not be so flakey anymore because of bullshit she had enough of. So, I left it at "don't be a stranger."
Afterwards, Randy calls me up to see what's up. I wind up talking to him for a while about Meggy the Flakey and, especially, Whitney. He basically just let me vent my frustrations with her and didn't really offer me real advice.
Guess who calls me a little while after I hang up with Randy? Whitney. We talked for so long about "us." I basically told her that I don't want to deal with a raging pothead and she needs to reconsider what she's doing with her life. It feels wrong of me to pass judgment on her and tell her how to live her life, but when I know we both want to be together we have to make compromises and adjustments to have harmony in the relationship.
I guess time will tell whether or not her mindless partying habits will fade to a manageable level. How can you honestly know if someone means "I love you" when they're drunk or high most of the time?
zombievengence:
Can't blame ya man. you couldent get into a relationship with a chick that smokes pot, I probably could never have a relationship with a girl who is a devout christian and or a die hard conservitive.