Jeez, your so lucky to get that cute little kittie back. I've got a friend in downtown SC and she says that it's gotten a lot scarier out at night the last few years.
Sorry, I probably don't have enough knowledge to help you anyway, I was just thinking to switched from ie to firfox or something. I hope you get the help you need!
It has it's ups and downs. Doing whatever you want is fun sometimes but it's also kind of hollow other times. I'm in the same situation where I've been single for 3 months after my partner of five years decided she needed to find herself but part of me still holds out hope and it just feels weird being single. And even though I have probably done more stuff and met more people so far this summer than my last four summers combined, being single still sucks.
Learning to forgive is an important part of the healing process. I am just beginning to do some necessary work myself so I can move on and feel better about life and myself.