ok....here's my situation this might be alot but :::please::: bear with me! alright my bestest friend in the whole world erin is mad at me i saw her at work last sunday n she wasn't talking to me so i was like umm ok?! n she was like I'LL TALK TO YOU LATER ABOUT IT!!!!!! so i was like fine but i don't need ur attitude...so i was freakin out b/c i didn't know y she was mad and i was thinkin about it n i couldn't think of any reason y she would be mad i saw her b/f that friday at the bar n then some party after...me n her b/f have been friends for a long time...i introduced 2 yrs. ago n they still go out 
and she definitely has never been the psycho g/f type like don't talk to my b/f!!!!! so anyways i was talking to him that night b/c earlier that day she was gettin all flippy with me at work b/c i said i was gong to the bar n she had work that nite?! umm so it seems to me that everytime i go out and she has work she gets mad at me?! am i supposed to stay in just b/c she has work? i don't get it b/c if she wanted to come out after work she knows i would go get her in a heart beat so after all this she STILL has not spoken to me she never called me or anything...im thinkin that if something is bothering her that bad we have an open enough relationship where she can confront me and talk to me about it...well this passing friday nite i saw her b/f at the bar again n i was kind of hesitant to say hi b/c i thought he was mad at me too...well he came n said hi n i was just kinda like....whats going on?? he told me the real reason she is mad at me is b/c i talked to him without her there!!!!!!! ARE....YOU...SERIOUS???? ok me n erin have been friends since we were like in diapers!!! i would never EVER go after one of my friends b/f's my friends mean entirely too much to me and for her to think this is ridiculous i would never want to do anything to make either of them feel weird ya kno? i dk what to do he said she's been very bitchy lately to everyone n the only thing i can do is call n apologize...but in a way i don't feel i should b/c i didn't do anything wrong y should i kiss her ass over something so dumb...but at the same time its killing me b/c usually i see n talk to her on a regular basis n i haven't for like the last week n a half....anyone have any suggestions?....this is killin me.... 
if u took the time to read all this thx 
fatally yours
me xox
and she definitely has never been the psycho g/f type like don't talk to my b/f!!!!! so anyways i was talking to him that night b/c earlier that day she was gettin all flippy with me at work b/c i said i was gong to the bar n she had work that nite?! umm so it seems to me that everytime i go out and she has work she gets mad at me?! am i supposed to stay in just b/c she has work? i don't get it b/c if she wanted to come out after work she knows i would go get her in a heart beat so after all this she STILL has not spoken to me she never called me or anything...im thinkin that if something is bothering her that bad we have an open enough relationship where she can confront me and talk to me about it...well this passing friday nite i saw her b/f at the bar again n i was kind of hesitant to say hi b/c i thought he was mad at me too...well he came n said hi n i was just kinda like....whats going on?? he told me the real reason she is mad at me is b/c i talked to him without her there!!!!!!! ARE....YOU...SERIOUS???? ok me n erin have been friends since we were like in diapers!!! i would never EVER go after one of my friends b/f's my friends mean entirely too much to me and for her to think this is ridiculous i would never want to do anything to make either of them feel weird ya kno? i dk what to do he said she's been very bitchy lately to everyone n the only thing i can do is call n apologize...but in a way i don't feel i should b/c i didn't do anything wrong y should i kiss her ass over something so dumb...but at the same time its killing me b/c usually i see n talk to her on a regular basis n i haven't for like the last week n a half....anyone have any suggestions?....this is killin me.... if u took the time to read all this thx
fatally yours
me xox
lucabrasi:
I'm a firm believer that sometimes it's easy to confuse problems with symptoms, if that makes sense. Maybe you're problem with her isn't really a problem at all, but is the result of a deeper underlying problem. It sounds like she's developed an insecurity in either her relationship with her boyfriend or her relationship with you that has nothing to do with that particular night when you talked to him. You should try to see if you can get to the root of the issue rather than just kiss her ass and make up for this particular issue. If theres a deeper problem, it'll just come back anyway. I over analyze things 
stormy:
it will be out soon soon soon.