So the other night, Me and a friend of mine went out to this ""club"" thats on post. we get there around 11pm and there is all of 5 people there. so we get a drink and just chill. well it is decided that food was a good idea so we figured might as well get something to eat and then maybe come back later and see if its any better.
Well while my buddies picking up the tab I see this gorgeous woman sittin by herself sippin a beer lookin kinda bummed. So I go over and make small talk find out her name and basicly tell her it was nice chattin for a few and that I was leaving and I may or maynot be back later.
That was the end of the convo, we went got food and came back at around 1am. shes out and about with some guy dancin and talking and then a short while later its another guy tryin to talk to her. well around 330 (this place closes at 5am) I'm in line to get a drink and motion to her like I'm takin a drink. she mouthed back budwieser. so I was like cool. some dude sat down next to her and try hittin her up and she points to me and basicly tells him to keep moving. so another buddy sees this as he is standing behind me in line and tells me he'll buy the drinks if I dance with her. I was like uh no way, (I cant dance for shit) or at least I dont think I can.
So she comes up and my buddy tells her to take me to the dance floor, so we head out there and we dance, and this is only the second person to not laugh hysterically at my skills and in fact continued to ask me to dance and stay on the dance floor.
By this time I'm just in complete amazment, we never did get the drinks and its about 430am. no biggie its time to go anyway. so I offer to let her stay with me and she says no she had to get back home so I was like cool walked her to her car and went to my buddies truck. well I'm get in and I look back and the whole time she's been staring at me, she gets inthe car and proceeds to look thru the back window still staring at me. so I was like fuck it I'll give her my Number. I bring it over and she invites me into the car, she changed her mind and wanted to go back to my place.
Thats where I'll leave this story, I'm sure you can figure the rest out. but it just amazes me that I was able to do this when I seem to be the biggest social retard in the world and all i did was pretty much nothing. although I did get to see first hand how well trying to "spit game" worked. My buddy couldnt believe it either but says the key to it all was the fact that I wasnt trying. I'm thinkin he's right. and to top it off she even called back.
Yeah this was pretty much a pointless entry but I felt the need to share, since I'm pretty amazed at myself right now for pulling that off (i know that last phrase sounds horrible and isnt intended to sound that way but its the only way I can think of right now to express it)
I really think I need to stop beating my self up and realize that I'm not as much a social retard as I sometimes tend to believe
Well while my buddies picking up the tab I see this gorgeous woman sittin by herself sippin a beer lookin kinda bummed. So I go over and make small talk find out her name and basicly tell her it was nice chattin for a few and that I was leaving and I may or maynot be back later.
That was the end of the convo, we went got food and came back at around 1am. shes out and about with some guy dancin and talking and then a short while later its another guy tryin to talk to her. well around 330 (this place closes at 5am) I'm in line to get a drink and motion to her like I'm takin a drink. she mouthed back budwieser. so I was like cool. some dude sat down next to her and try hittin her up and she points to me and basicly tells him to keep moving. so another buddy sees this as he is standing behind me in line and tells me he'll buy the drinks if I dance with her. I was like uh no way, (I cant dance for shit) or at least I dont think I can.
So she comes up and my buddy tells her to take me to the dance floor, so we head out there and we dance, and this is only the second person to not laugh hysterically at my skills and in fact continued to ask me to dance and stay on the dance floor.
By this time I'm just in complete amazment, we never did get the drinks and its about 430am. no biggie its time to go anyway. so I offer to let her stay with me and she says no she had to get back home so I was like cool walked her to her car and went to my buddies truck. well I'm get in and I look back and the whole time she's been staring at me, she gets inthe car and proceeds to look thru the back window still staring at me. so I was like fuck it I'll give her my Number. I bring it over and she invites me into the car, she changed her mind and wanted to go back to my place.
Thats where I'll leave this story, I'm sure you can figure the rest out. but it just amazes me that I was able to do this when I seem to be the biggest social retard in the world and all i did was pretty much nothing. although I did get to see first hand how well trying to "spit game" worked. My buddy couldnt believe it either but says the key to it all was the fact that I wasnt trying. I'm thinkin he's right. and to top it off she even called back.
Yeah this was pretty much a pointless entry but I felt the need to share, since I'm pretty amazed at myself right now for pulling that off (i know that last phrase sounds horrible and isnt intended to sound that way but its the only way I can think of right now to express it)
I really think I need to stop beating my self up and realize that I'm not as much a social retard as I sometimes tend to believe
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Speaking from experience, there is something about you that makes girls feel at ease around you. That combined with your great personality I'm pretty damn sure this won't be a one time event for you. I'm glad you are starting to find out what a hottie you actually are.
p.s. you dance just fine.