I am finding out that most people these days have no backbone. Unable to tell you what you they are feeling to your face. People will simply let situations play out until someone "gets the hint" but this is just not mystyle. I wear my heart on my sleeve and people always know where they stand with me. The majority of the people that I am meeting are so far wrapped up in themselves that they do not have the ability to care for another. Why are people so fickle I know that it is the current standard to have the attention span of about 15 minuets. And I have also warning someone up front about something does not absolve you of wrong doing that may occur over the course of the relationship. If you are getting involved in a relationship of any sort, issues that are brought in should be worked on.
Here are some examples:
Telling someone "i have a boyfriend" does not make it ok to shamelessly flirt with them and talk about how great someone is compared to this boyfriend...
Telling somone "i don't want a boyfriend" does not make it ok to tell this person you are falling in love with them... then days later fall off the face of the earth and say nothing to this person.
I usually tell people upfront that "I'm an asshole" it never seems to be ok when i am an asshole to that person. So if my blanket statement isn't good enough neither is anyone else's.
If you feel one way tell them.. and if you no longer feel that way... tell them... do not leave them to figure out it on thier own.
So i campaign for the "GROW A FUCKING BACKBONE 2006" movement.
I hate dating... and on general principle I hate people.
Here are some examples:
Telling someone "i have a boyfriend" does not make it ok to shamelessly flirt with them and talk about how great someone is compared to this boyfriend...
Telling somone "i don't want a boyfriend" does not make it ok to tell this person you are falling in love with them... then days later fall off the face of the earth and say nothing to this person.
I usually tell people upfront that "I'm an asshole" it never seems to be ok when i am an asshole to that person. So if my blanket statement isn't good enough neither is anyone else's.
If you feel one way tell them.. and if you no longer feel that way... tell them... do not leave them to figure out it on thier own.
So i campaign for the "GROW A FUCKING BACKBONE 2006" movement.
I hate dating... and on general principle I hate people.