Ok I finally found some time to properly address the drama which has played out below and in chat over the last week.
As I see it, people sign up for this site for different reasons. Some do so to pursue a modeling career, others do so for the social networking aspect of it. Some are voyeurs, others are exhibitionists. But to some extent, we are all participants in this community.
Let me be perfectly clear: I pay my $50 a year to be here just like the next guy and I reserve the right to use this website as my own personal spank bank. I don't come here to make friends. I don't come here to discuss the finer points of Val Kilmer vs. Christian Bale. I don't come here to reminisce over Zac Morris' enormous cell phone or to share WoW game tips. I come here to get in, get off, and get out. Period. Then get on with the rest of my life. I find much greater value in actual human interaction.
There are a group of people in chat who seem to find value in investing what can only be described as obscene amounts of time in the chatroom. They basically make a full-time job out of it. When I poke my head in chat, I do so admittedly because I'm hoping to see some girl drop trou or pop a nip. While I may crack a smile over one of the ongoing conversations, I'm mostly there for the voyeurism aspect of it, and I refuse to apologize for that. If you've got a problem with that, i invite you to exercise your right to block me.
Last week I was solicited by one of the afore mentioned regulars to get my dick out on webcam at her request. She then proceeded to screen cap me and post it in a public forum. I would like everyone to consider for a moment what would have happened had I done that exact same thing to a female member of this site. I'd be zotted in a heartbeat. It's an enormous double standard.
I'm not going anywhere. I've met some great people on here and I'll continue to enjoy the hot pictures and sexy discussion topics. I have always, and will continue to be very straightforward about my intentions and I admit when I am wrong.
I'm whatsgolden and this is my $0.02
As I see it, people sign up for this site for different reasons. Some do so to pursue a modeling career, others do so for the social networking aspect of it. Some are voyeurs, others are exhibitionists. But to some extent, we are all participants in this community.
Let me be perfectly clear: I pay my $50 a year to be here just like the next guy and I reserve the right to use this website as my own personal spank bank. I don't come here to make friends. I don't come here to discuss the finer points of Val Kilmer vs. Christian Bale. I don't come here to reminisce over Zac Morris' enormous cell phone or to share WoW game tips. I come here to get in, get off, and get out. Period. Then get on with the rest of my life. I find much greater value in actual human interaction.
There are a group of people in chat who seem to find value in investing what can only be described as obscene amounts of time in the chatroom. They basically make a full-time job out of it. When I poke my head in chat, I do so admittedly because I'm hoping to see some girl drop trou or pop a nip. While I may crack a smile over one of the ongoing conversations, I'm mostly there for the voyeurism aspect of it, and I refuse to apologize for that. If you've got a problem with that, i invite you to exercise your right to block me.
Last week I was solicited by one of the afore mentioned regulars to get my dick out on webcam at her request. She then proceeded to screen cap me and post it in a public forum. I would like everyone to consider for a moment what would have happened had I done that exact same thing to a female member of this site. I'd be zotted in a heartbeat. It's an enormous double standard.
I'm not going anywhere. I've met some great people on here and I'll continue to enjoy the hot pictures and sexy discussion topics. I have always, and will continue to be very straightforward about my intentions and I admit when I am wrong.
I'm whatsgolden and this is my $0.02
Just try not to step on too many toes