werlywolf

Yeah, I was just thinking the same when I heard the ee cummings line!

So I started reading the "friend excuse" postings and this is why I kinda quit posting in groups. You say one thing and everyone wants to make it somehow negative or as if you say something you're not quite saying. The point is as simple as "friends make great lovers because... well, they get along" but everyone seems to be taking it the wrong direction like "every friend should be your lover because friends are the only lover". What's the deal with people? This is why it will never make sense because people WANT things to be creepy and take things the wrong way rather than letting it be as simple as "something nice can be something more". Simple, right? Makes sense. Doesn't mean everything nice can be something more... you know that, I know that, but I don't know why people can't think in simple terms.
I just thought I'd share that as I continued to read, understand your view, then try to figure out what contortions people put into your words. Not everything is as creepy or desperate as people want it to be. Sigh.

Anyway, back to some music and keeping invisible from forums and sets. I've pretty much given up on both because people just don't care anymore. I miss the days when I posted and people actually understood and discussed things rather than ignored or turned shit around as if no matter what I said I was somehow the one in the wrong. Seriously.