So I'm in a big of a jam.
I'm currently seeing this girl (dating for close to 9 months) who is perfect personality wise. We get a long great, we like a lot of the same things and we introduce each other to things we love. Sound great right?
Well my big problem is and this has been weighing on me for some time now, but I think Im being less attracted to her. And its not like she's not attractive, but its becoming harder and harder for me to see / feel it. It doesn't help that she's not all that great in bed.
The thing that bugs me the most is 95% off the time this stuff doesn't bug me, so why is it now? If anyone has any advice I need some help here.
I'm currently seeing this girl (dating for close to 9 months) who is perfect personality wise. We get a long great, we like a lot of the same things and we introduce each other to things we love. Sound great right?
Well my big problem is and this has been weighing on me for some time now, but I think Im being less attracted to her. And its not like she's not attractive, but its becoming harder and harder for me to see / feel it. It doesn't help that she's not all that great in bed.
The thing that bugs me the most is 95% off the time this stuff doesn't bug me, so why is it now? If anyone has any advice I need some help here.

hennessy:
It's probably the sex, lol. It's integral in most of my relationships ... Try to find a way to turn it up a notch in the sack. Grab her hips and guide her sometimes. Some girls don't know how to move on a guy ? Sounds to me like the rest of your relationship is in good standing so I'm just going with what seems to be the problem