Are the most evil sweeties on the planet... I did what any hungover dad does when he's in the paper shop with his kids... I caved in to any request. SO my eldest asked for Millions. When we got home I very carefully got a pair of scissors and opened the packet and poured them into bowls for my two daughters.
I did this because Millions are utter bastards, tear open the celophane packet and they explode everywhere and it takes months finding them all...
So They sit down nicely to start eating, I slope of to continue recovering from last night... Then I hear the unmistakeable Boing Boing Boing sound of millions going all over the floor... Fuck why do I do it. I should have said no, but I took the easy path (mainly cos I'm a totally shit dad who always takes the easy path and caves into either my kids or my wifes wants).
Thank fuck for hand held vacuum cleaners...
I always get my son the worst candy. He doesn't have it often, and it's so cute and sweet when he gets excited about that shit. Of course it ends up being a terrible mess.
I think that destruction is not always bad. Destruction brings growth (like you said), and i think the world is made up of equal parts of that love and destruction adn beauty formula.