waitingforsleep

It is really started to seem to me that women don't care if you are a nice guy, but would always rather go for the asshole who miss treats them and manipulates them. I really just can't get my mind around this thinking. Whats so bad about the nice guy?
Where does the infatuation for a jerk come from? I wish it was in me to be an asshole, but its not. I have to much respect for women
to be a jerk. Is there a fear that to nice guy will not protect you? I mean I can only speak for myself but I have never let someone close to me be messed with or disrespected in anyway with out standing up for them and in some cases more. I just really live with the frame of mind that trying to control someone is bad, playing games is bad, and jealousy will just ruin and bring you down. I just don't know anymore. Why put yourself in such a bad spot.
Ok I think I am done ranting for now.