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I had forgotten what a pain in the butt it is being friends with girls! So much more high maintenence than guy friends. With girls it seems you're always working on some way to "improve the relationship" ...it's like I have a freakin' girlfriend or something except I'm not gettin' any!!!!! AAAAACK! Can you tell I'm feeling smothered? Obligated to hang out when I'd rather be alone sometimes.

This is usually the part where I start becoming a flake, not returning calls and junk. Girls get all pissy when I do that. Guy friends are so much easier. I can just call one out of the blue after months or even years of no contact and just say, "Wanna hang out?" and everything's cool.

However, I do realize that I do actually need a few girlie friends in my life, so I put up with all the bullcrap, moodiness, etc. so that on that rare occaision I feel like doing something totally girlie, I have someone to tag along with me.

SO....I guess I have to go call someone now in order to maintain our friendship. I do really enjoy her company and value her much as a friend. I've just always been a free spirited loner and find it difficult to adhere to people's expectations of what it should be like to be friends with me.

Anyone else ever feel this way, or am I just really antisocial or something?