What is sexy?
I was talking to a friend the other day at work and I responded that I thought the women on Suicide Girls were sexy. Of course he didn't know what I was talking about so I showed him. And what do you think his response was? Was it 'Hell yeah!! These girls are sexy!" nope.
He said what is sexy about these girls? I was left speechless.
What ISN'T sexy about a Suicide Girl? So I began to explain to him that the girls were not 'Freaks', but REAL women who are not afraid to be who they are. They are sexy because they know who they are. They are sexy because feel sexy. They are sexy because they do what is natural to them. And simply because, well they just ARE sexy!
He couldn't get past the tattoo's and the makeup or piercings. Only looking at the superficial not the whole. I explained that I liked all that, and that is what helps make the whole, but not the only thing. So I asked who he thought was sexy. Pam Anderson.
Now I think she is hot. But she is a creation for the masses. She has made herself BECOME Pam Anderson. The girls I find sexy are because they are themselves, not who they think they should be. To him sexy is just the look. To me it is the whole package. Looks, attitude, outlook.
We ended up just agreeing to disagree.
(But I bet he went home and looked at the free pics on SuicideGirls.com)
I was talking to a friend the other day at work and I responded that I thought the women on Suicide Girls were sexy. Of course he didn't know what I was talking about so I showed him. And what do you think his response was? Was it 'Hell yeah!! These girls are sexy!" nope.
He said what is sexy about these girls? I was left speechless.
What ISN'T sexy about a Suicide Girl? So I began to explain to him that the girls were not 'Freaks', but REAL women who are not afraid to be who they are. They are sexy because they know who they are. They are sexy because feel sexy. They are sexy because they do what is natural to them. And simply because, well they just ARE sexy!
He couldn't get past the tattoo's and the makeup or piercings. Only looking at the superficial not the whole. I explained that I liked all that, and that is what helps make the whole, but not the only thing. So I asked who he thought was sexy. Pam Anderson.
Now I think she is hot. But she is a creation for the masses. She has made herself BECOME Pam Anderson. The girls I find sexy are because they are themselves, not who they think they should be. To him sexy is just the look. To me it is the whole package. Looks, attitude, outlook.
We ended up just agreeing to disagree.
(But I bet he went home and looked at the free pics on SuicideGirls.com)
khayos:
thank you for the comment on my set, and i am sad your friend does not think SG's are sexy!!!! i guess it's because i've always liked tattoos, people who don't is kind of alien to me! everyone i know has at least 1! (except my parents lol) xx