My friend's wedding may kill me.
Seriously, like, angry bridesmaid ripping me limb from limb because they think I'm trying to be difficult.
Apparently their definition of difficult is me getting sick so I didn't go help them on Saturday to finish some things (even though I don't live in the same town) and not getting the itinerary and the low down on everything so I have to ask for it.
They also can't both to include me in the planning of things. They just tell me things at the last minute and I'm like "uh no, I am not in fact going to get my nails done" which results in the bride losing her shit until I explain to her that my mom is doing them for me already.
They also didn't get a hold of my Mom to plan the day they are getting their hair done like they promised, so now my poor Mom is cramped for time and has to do an extra girl that isn't in the bridal party but the bride feels she needs to have her hair done anyway.
But apparently me asking them questions that come directly from my Mom is my being a difficult bitch and apparently it's none of my business to resolve even though I'm helping my Mom do the hair.
Really? Really? You're going to be a bitch to me when I have control over what your hair looks like at the wedding? Not smart.
Every one is so stressed they got the bride pissed so now I'm trying to calm her down when she could have just answered my damn phone call yesterday and bypassed this whole issue.
I really want to drop out of the wedding. I'm tired, frustrated, I can't hold down anything I eat, and I have classes to worry about. At least it'll be done Saturday and I can go back to not seeing any of them again.
Ugh.
So how are you??
Seriously, like, angry bridesmaid ripping me limb from limb because they think I'm trying to be difficult.
Apparently their definition of difficult is me getting sick so I didn't go help them on Saturday to finish some things (even though I don't live in the same town) and not getting the itinerary and the low down on everything so I have to ask for it.
They also can't both to include me in the planning of things. They just tell me things at the last minute and I'm like "uh no, I am not in fact going to get my nails done" which results in the bride losing her shit until I explain to her that my mom is doing them for me already.
They also didn't get a hold of my Mom to plan the day they are getting their hair done like they promised, so now my poor Mom is cramped for time and has to do an extra girl that isn't in the bridal party but the bride feels she needs to have her hair done anyway.
But apparently me asking them questions that come directly from my Mom is my being a difficult bitch and apparently it's none of my business to resolve even though I'm helping my Mom do the hair.
Really? Really? You're going to be a bitch to me when I have control over what your hair looks like at the wedding? Not smart.
Every one is so stressed they got the bride pissed so now I'm trying to calm her down when she could have just answered my damn phone call yesterday and bypassed this whole issue.
I really want to drop out of the wedding. I'm tired, frustrated, I can't hold down anything I eat, and I have classes to worry about. At least it'll be done Saturday and I can go back to not seeing any of them again.
Ugh.
So how are you??
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ravenspedigree:
And that's exactly why I try not to shoot or be around any wedding if i can help it. You can never get answers when you need them. But at least you're about over with it. Next move never help with another one again hehe 
Hope you're doing well otherwise hun
Hope you're doing well otherwise hun
williamnot:
get married, invite them all to be your bridesmaids, be a total bitch. profit.