Part One
Have you ever really followed your desire to follow an adventure, where you step outside the bounds of what others tell you is right and wrong, and you really just do what feels natural??
That is what i'm going through right now.
It's called "Nuveau dating", it is a new trend that cupcake and i have started, that has achieved a fad with a population: 2. I'm writing this journal entry to show the world, how cool we really are with this whole new fad. haha. Nuveau dating is SO choice.
Ok here is the story about cupcake and i, in case any of y'all were wondering. It's a doozey, so pull up a chair and listen, cause if you don't listen, then i can already predict what your messages will say.
Cupcake and i met through a friend about a month ago. I was dating someone casually, he was dating someone, we had great conversation, but i really didn't pursue him at that point. It was a crazy party we were at, and everyone got naked in a hot tub, with like 12 people, and i kissed him along with 12 other people in a bathroom. That was the rule, make out with everyone in the bathroom to achieve admission into the shower.
I didn't see cupcake for a month. I broke things off with Brent, , and decided i wanted to live up the single life for a while. I turned into a dating FREAK! Dating boys left and right, and trying to get over my ex boyfriend Kemal. I talked kemal into having a drink with me about two weeks ago, to see how he had been and see if there was any chemistry left between us... with the hopes that maybe there was. Since it had been almost 4 months since he dumped me so abruptly.
kemal and i went out for a drink, and suprisingly enough, i felt nothing. I looked at him and was just not attracted to him in the least. He really didn't have much of anything interesting to say, he wasn't as cute as I remembered, and I struggled to relate with him in any shape or form. The only thing that kind of ego bruised me was the fact that he found some girl and had been "with" her since 3 weeks after we broke up. the only part that kind of was annoying is the fact that he had introduced her already to his awesome parents who i miss terribly. After our break up, his family was really what i liked about him.
But besides that, i walked away from having a drink with Kemal that night... thanking a god i don't believe in...that he broke up with me. Because it all became so clear, how he really isn't the person that I want to be with now, or in the future. Don't get me wrong, he is a great guy in many ways, and I want good things for him. But he is not capable of giving me what i deserve, and he even said that during our break up, but I dont' think I really know what that meant until now.
Anyway, back to the subject at hand. So I went to go visit my friend Mara after kemal and i had a beer. Mara is the one who introduced me to kemal,.
Mara and i have become good friends through this whole kemal break up situation, because she was going through a very similiar hard break up with kemal's roommate Charley.
I wanted to go tell her how excited I was that I finally had freed myself from my living hell. And have a beer with her to celebrate being single. There were some serious hotties in the bar that night. I was flirting around, giving my business card out left and right...
Cupcake is Mara's coworker and good friend and he showed up.. It was good to see him b/c i hadn't seen him since the party where the "shirts off crew" all got naked in the hot tub...and we had kissed in the bathroom....
Come to find out, he and the girl he had been dating were not dating anymore... I told him about all the random dates i had been on, and how I was single...etc. And then after some hours of interesting conversation he asked me out on a date.
I have to admit, I really didn't take the idea of going otu with cupcake too seriously at first. I don't really know why, he just kind of seemed like a young boy, being gutsy asking me out, and really I guess I didn't think he was serious.
WE went out on sunday, to a UNION convention as our first date. hahaha... it was rad. The free shit they give away at those conventions is fantastic. We entered in drawings, and this one hawaiian union, decided to pick us out of a crowd...
Part Two.... TO BE CONTINUED
Have you ever really followed your desire to follow an adventure, where you step outside the bounds of what others tell you is right and wrong, and you really just do what feels natural??
That is what i'm going through right now.
It's called "Nuveau dating", it is a new trend that cupcake and i have started, that has achieved a fad with a population: 2. I'm writing this journal entry to show the world, how cool we really are with this whole new fad. haha. Nuveau dating is SO choice.
Ok here is the story about cupcake and i, in case any of y'all were wondering. It's a doozey, so pull up a chair and listen, cause if you don't listen, then i can already predict what your messages will say.
Cupcake and i met through a friend about a month ago. I was dating someone casually, he was dating someone, we had great conversation, but i really didn't pursue him at that point. It was a crazy party we were at, and everyone got naked in a hot tub, with like 12 people, and i kissed him along with 12 other people in a bathroom. That was the rule, make out with everyone in the bathroom to achieve admission into the shower.
I didn't see cupcake for a month. I broke things off with Brent, , and decided i wanted to live up the single life for a while. I turned into a dating FREAK! Dating boys left and right, and trying to get over my ex boyfriend Kemal. I talked kemal into having a drink with me about two weeks ago, to see how he had been and see if there was any chemistry left between us... with the hopes that maybe there was. Since it had been almost 4 months since he dumped me so abruptly.
kemal and i went out for a drink, and suprisingly enough, i felt nothing. I looked at him and was just not attracted to him in the least. He really didn't have much of anything interesting to say, he wasn't as cute as I remembered, and I struggled to relate with him in any shape or form. The only thing that kind of ego bruised me was the fact that he found some girl and had been "with" her since 3 weeks after we broke up. the only part that kind of was annoying is the fact that he had introduced her already to his awesome parents who i miss terribly. After our break up, his family was really what i liked about him.
But besides that, i walked away from having a drink with Kemal that night... thanking a god i don't believe in...that he broke up with me. Because it all became so clear, how he really isn't the person that I want to be with now, or in the future. Don't get me wrong, he is a great guy in many ways, and I want good things for him. But he is not capable of giving me what i deserve, and he even said that during our break up, but I dont' think I really know what that meant until now.
Anyway, back to the subject at hand. So I went to go visit my friend Mara after kemal and i had a beer. Mara is the one who introduced me to kemal,.
Mara and i have become good friends through this whole kemal break up situation, because she was going through a very similiar hard break up with kemal's roommate Charley.
I wanted to go tell her how excited I was that I finally had freed myself from my living hell. And have a beer with her to celebrate being single. There were some serious hotties in the bar that night. I was flirting around, giving my business card out left and right...
Cupcake is Mara's coworker and good friend and he showed up.. It was good to see him b/c i hadn't seen him since the party where the "shirts off crew" all got naked in the hot tub...and we had kissed in the bathroom....
Come to find out, he and the girl he had been dating were not dating anymore... I told him about all the random dates i had been on, and how I was single...etc. And then after some hours of interesting conversation he asked me out on a date.
I have to admit, I really didn't take the idea of going otu with cupcake too seriously at first. I don't really know why, he just kind of seemed like a young boy, being gutsy asking me out, and really I guess I didn't think he was serious.
WE went out on sunday, to a UNION convention as our first date. hahaha... it was rad. The free shit they give away at those conventions is fantastic. We entered in drawings, and this one hawaiian union, decided to pick us out of a crowd...
Part Two.... TO BE CONTINUED
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too many people out there, when I get settled you guys wanna come up for thanksgiving?
So while you are doing this living-together dating, what are the rules? Are you allowing yourselves contact with anyone else?
Lucky, lucky guy.