Well, it's been a weird few days. The Photographer is off in Cape Breton making fat cash, I've been offered a better position in my current job which may involve such perks as my writing actually getting published in someplace other than my own magazine, and one of the baristas at my fave caf is leaving for a more lucrative position in the event planning industry.
Oh, and last night some of the DCBs offered me $45 to engage in and write about a lesbian experience. Still thinking about that one. My fuck friend has been trying to convince me to meet a female friend of his for a contest. She claims she can lick a woman's pussy far better than any man, and he totally disagrees with her, as he claims it's based on experience and being in tune with each particular woman (rather than 'knowing what women want' because you're a woman). I tend to agree more with his assessment, though I've never had sex with a woman, hence their contest. I would get lots of oral sex out of the deal, but I've never seriously considered it. Am I the only straight girl on the planet?!
I dunno, man. I have nothing against bisexuality or lesbianism, and I obviously like to ogle naked women, as you might have guessed by my SG membership. I've just never really had any interest in fucking chicks. And I'm certainly not going to fuck a chick just because it's the 'in' thing to do. Fuck sexual trends.
Speaking of which, why does it seem that the other sexual trend is anal sex? Why are all the guys I know hot to violate my ass? I have never been interested in getting fucked in the ass, but recently felt like I should at least give it a try for educational purposes. Both times it was uncomfortable and not terribly pleasurable, so it's not something I would willingly add to my sexual repertoire. But I feel like suddenly there is this huge pressure on women to let someone fuck us in the ass, and if we don't like it, we are considered abnormal. Yet, isn't it sort of abnormal to shove something into an oriface that is normally reserved for the excretion of shit?
I dunno, man. I like to think of myself as sexually adventurous, or at least open-minded, but I know there are certain things I just won't do. I don't want to humiliate people when I fuck them, and I don't want them to humiliate me. For some reason, I have this crazy idea that it should be about love - or at the very least lust - and that doesn't involve degrading your partner. If you agree to play games together which involve degradation, fine, but if you start smacking your partner around or doing something that makes them say, 'STOP!' then you are definitely not having consensual sex anymore, and that makes me nervous. I suspect this is why lots of people don't want to get involved in S&M kinds of stuff - they aren't sure where the lines are and worry about being treated like shit by someone who claims to love them. It takes trust to go to those places, and if you can't trust your partner, then it's not a game.
Anyway, all that to say that I'm not sure why guys are so interested in anal sex. Is it something in the water? I would tend to agree with Diamanda Galas when she says that if a guy wants to fuck her in the ass, he has to agree to be fucked in the ass first. She says this is so that he'll understand what it means to be a woman, which I don't agree with, but yeah, you have to be willing to take what you're dishing out, so bend over.
Oh, and last night some of the DCBs offered me $45 to engage in and write about a lesbian experience. Still thinking about that one. My fuck friend has been trying to convince me to meet a female friend of his for a contest. She claims she can lick a woman's pussy far better than any man, and he totally disagrees with her, as he claims it's based on experience and being in tune with each particular woman (rather than 'knowing what women want' because you're a woman). I tend to agree more with his assessment, though I've never had sex with a woman, hence their contest. I would get lots of oral sex out of the deal, but I've never seriously considered it. Am I the only straight girl on the planet?!
I dunno, man. I have nothing against bisexuality or lesbianism, and I obviously like to ogle naked women, as you might have guessed by my SG membership. I've just never really had any interest in fucking chicks. And I'm certainly not going to fuck a chick just because it's the 'in' thing to do. Fuck sexual trends.
Speaking of which, why does it seem that the other sexual trend is anal sex? Why are all the guys I know hot to violate my ass? I have never been interested in getting fucked in the ass, but recently felt like I should at least give it a try for educational purposes. Both times it was uncomfortable and not terribly pleasurable, so it's not something I would willingly add to my sexual repertoire. But I feel like suddenly there is this huge pressure on women to let someone fuck us in the ass, and if we don't like it, we are considered abnormal. Yet, isn't it sort of abnormal to shove something into an oriface that is normally reserved for the excretion of shit?
I dunno, man. I like to think of myself as sexually adventurous, or at least open-minded, but I know there are certain things I just won't do. I don't want to humiliate people when I fuck them, and I don't want them to humiliate me. For some reason, I have this crazy idea that it should be about love - or at the very least lust - and that doesn't involve degrading your partner. If you agree to play games together which involve degradation, fine, but if you start smacking your partner around or doing something that makes them say, 'STOP!' then you are definitely not having consensual sex anymore, and that makes me nervous. I suspect this is why lots of people don't want to get involved in S&M kinds of stuff - they aren't sure where the lines are and worry about being treated like shit by someone who claims to love them. It takes trust to go to those places, and if you can't trust your partner, then it's not a game.
Anyway, all that to say that I'm not sure why guys are so interested in anal sex. Is it something in the water? I would tend to agree with Diamanda Galas when she says that if a guy wants to fuck her in the ass, he has to agree to be fucked in the ass first. She says this is so that he'll understand what it means to be a woman, which I don't agree with, but yeah, you have to be willing to take what you're dishing out, so bend over.
I'm glad you like the sets but I think I might just be more to your tastes. Some of the others have some really good sets with hot pics and a fair sized following. I do it for myself mostly but I do like the feedback.