There are going to be times when the people you love are going to say hurtful things to you, it doesn't mean that they love you any less, and it doesn't mean that they were intentially trying to hurt you, it means that there are 2 things you need to work on, 1. Understanding one another, and 2. Communication. These are the two things that make or break a relationship and when you put the extra effort into getting to know eachother and actually talking things out, you will have a relationship where you go to bed smiling and wake up in eachothers arms. 
tinkergaloot:
I could not agree more!!!!