OK just how hard does it have to be to find real friends? Come on is honestly really so lost to humans in general that openess with in friendship is lost and everything is just a farce?
Let alone the factthat there has to be a easier way to find a female significant other who either wasn't to test me in bed first or is scared away by my husband. Yes I like both sexes. NO I will not sleep with *just anyone*! Personality is a big thing for me, I'm not into sex just for sex. I see sex as a big part of showing *deep* feelings for someone and bonding in a way. My husband, other then the fact that he's still trying to get used to the fact that he can talk to me about attributes of a woman he's seen walking by, let alone the fact that as he's put it if it makes me happy it makes him happy. (is it really pretty much every straight man's wet dream to have sex with more then one woman at a time?)
Let alone the factthat there has to be a easier way to find a female significant other who either wasn't to test me in bed first or is scared away by my husband. Yes I like both sexes. NO I will not sleep with *just anyone*! Personality is a big thing for me, I'm not into sex just for sex. I see sex as a big part of showing *deep* feelings for someone and bonding in a way. My husband, other then the fact that he's still trying to get used to the fact that he can talk to me about attributes of a woman he's seen walking by, let alone the fact that as he's put it if it makes me happy it makes him happy. (is it really pretty much every straight man's wet dream to have sex with more then one woman at a time?)

But, then you hit the little snag is it cheating if both of you are together when it happends? In my oppinion it's a no.