So I did right by me the other day and I'm pissed off because I feel realy guilty about it and I don't think I should.
I was at this girls house warming party and I was flirting with her all night. She gave me a tour of her house wich ended in her bedroom when she closed the door and invited me to join her in her bed. I was happy with this. She's been a crush of mine for quite some time and the girl's got a body like a battle axe! Anyway just as she started pawing at my clothing I gave her the first straight compliment of the night (pretty much just teasing and jokingly running a guilt trip for not showing at my B-day festivities untill then). "You are an astonishingly beautiful woman!" I said to her. She looked me right in the eye and said "No I'm not." I repeated myself and she repeated herself. Slowly kissing my way from her shoulder, up her neck, to her ear I whispered "Yes you are... I don't waste my time with girls that I don't think are beautifull... and you..." I traced my way past her lips to her other ear, gently nibled, "are holding my attention very well... so... clearly you must be very... very... beautifull." She replied with "No I'm not beautiful I'm just average." I stopped everything I was doing, looked her right in the eye, and said "Well then... You must know better than me. I guess I'm wasting my time." Before she could pick her jaw off the floor I got up and left.
I feel bad for this. I may have been a little more harsh than was necesary but the last thing I want is a chick that needs me to be a constant self esteem boost. I don't mind being supportive but if it's looking like that's gonna be the whole relationship I'm just gonna run. Ladies the games are fun and all, a little fishing for compliments is fine but make sure we know your just playing. Someone incapable of beleiving in their own attractiveness is a major turn off. CONFIDENCE IS SEXY! And for the love of God just take a compliment for what it is here and there. Sometimes the right answer is just "Thank you."
I'm done ranting for now. Time for sleeping. Needed that shit off my chest.
I was at this girls house warming party and I was flirting with her all night. She gave me a tour of her house wich ended in her bedroom when she closed the door and invited me to join her in her bed. I was happy with this. She's been a crush of mine for quite some time and the girl's got a body like a battle axe! Anyway just as she started pawing at my clothing I gave her the first straight compliment of the night (pretty much just teasing and jokingly running a guilt trip for not showing at my B-day festivities untill then). "You are an astonishingly beautiful woman!" I said to her. She looked me right in the eye and said "No I'm not." I repeated myself and she repeated herself. Slowly kissing my way from her shoulder, up her neck, to her ear I whispered "Yes you are... I don't waste my time with girls that I don't think are beautifull... and you..." I traced my way past her lips to her other ear, gently nibled, "are holding my attention very well... so... clearly you must be very... very... beautifull." She replied with "No I'm not beautiful I'm just average." I stopped everything I was doing, looked her right in the eye, and said "Well then... You must know better than me. I guess I'm wasting my time." Before she could pick her jaw off the floor I got up and left.
I feel bad for this. I may have been a little more harsh than was necesary but the last thing I want is a chick that needs me to be a constant self esteem boost. I don't mind being supportive but if it's looking like that's gonna be the whole relationship I'm just gonna run. Ladies the games are fun and all, a little fishing for compliments is fine but make sure we know your just playing. Someone incapable of beleiving in their own attractiveness is a major turn off. CONFIDENCE IS SEXY! And for the love of God just take a compliment for what it is here and there. Sometimes the right answer is just "Thank you."
I'm done ranting for now. Time for sleeping. Needed that shit off my chest.
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girls like that annoy me too.
even if you don't feel pretty, one should be able to take a complement.
silly girls.
try again later.
i'm sure she'll be more reseptive...