I don't really get ppl who have overlarge ego's. A friend comes to me with a problem, yes with a girl. Simply what he wants is his ex to apologize for her bad behaviour. Fair enough. But 12 months on she's on her next adventure, as likely to apologise as I am to win lotto, and he's still screaming murder. And you tell him staying angry isn't healthy. Time to process. No. We each have our path to tread I guess. 
