This fucken' web cam shit sucks. Either that or I am just retarted. I can't get my cam to work. Someone please help me before I throw this thing out the god damn window and run it over with the riding mower. Oh shit.........the angry white man personality is coming out to play with this stupid web cam. 
And the thing that took me the longest to figure out.. My cam (Logitech) didn't come with software that supported ftp (at least, not configurable -- it was only set to upload to a Logitech-partnered site). I had to download seperate software.
In the FAQ about cams, they give you some good options.
http://suicidegirls.com/faq/#13