Some days I don't know what to do about my relationship. Like there isn't really anything wrong, it's just me overthinking and worrying for no reason. But I've come to notice that my boyfriend doesn't give me the same attention like he did his ex. Like always telling her she perfect or how beautiful she is. He doesn't do that to me. And I don't know if it's because we live together or what. But it worries me. And he isn't as sweet and as passionate as he first was when we got together. I miss that fire we had. I know stress and finances can do a deal of hurting on a relationship, but I feel like it's getting like my last one where my ex cheated on me. I'm lost and I don't know what to do if I can do anything. And advice would be great. Sorry for the rant!
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moregraffiti:
If you decide to talk just choose your words carefully :)
fietsbel:
@turquiose Love is very important in a relationship, but as a good second comes talking to eachother. Talk to him about your worries, because they are. The problems you write about (stress and finances) I think hapen in a lot of relationships (mine forsure) and the only thing that we can do about it is talk to eachother. Once a person doesn't want to talk to the other one, not just being mad for a short period of time, than there is something wrong. On forehand don't compare him with your ex, he is a different person. How to start the conversation, perhaps showing him that you are afraid and vulnerable. And, no I don't have the correct answer, just telling how my wife and I deal with some problems.