My roomate's boyfriend dumped her the other day. But since then he has been here everynight. All they do is argue and she screams at him and call him awful name some of which he deserves and some he doesnt. He doesnt love her and thats why he's trying to break up with her but he has been stringing her along for a few months now and I think that that really hurt her.
Here's my problem: She's been one of my best friends since 6th grade, and now she wont talk to me, she didnt eat for like 4 days, she blames herself for everything and frankly is beginning to scare me a little. She wont confide in me and when I try and talk to her to try and cheer her up she takes it the wrong way or ignores me. HELP!!!! What the fuck do I do? I want to be there for her like she was for me when I broke up with my boyfriend but she's making it so hard. Oh and one more thing she's entitled to a good amount of wallowing in self pity but our other roomate's (Ashley) grandma who she was really close to just died and Anne-Marie is still like poor me, whoa is me. Some people have real problems and I have no patience for those who dont want to help themsleves. Any suggestions boys?
Here's my problem: She's been one of my best friends since 6th grade, and now she wont talk to me, she didnt eat for like 4 days, she blames herself for everything and frankly is beginning to scare me a little. She wont confide in me and when I try and talk to her to try and cheer her up she takes it the wrong way or ignores me. HELP!!!! What the fuck do I do? I want to be there for her like she was for me when I broke up with my boyfriend but she's making it so hard. Oh and one more thing she's entitled to a good amount of wallowing in self pity but our other roomate's (Ashley) grandma who she was really close to just died and Anne-Marie is still like poor me, whoa is me. Some people have real problems and I have no patience for those who dont want to help themsleves. Any suggestions boys?
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To tell you the truth I have been in a relationship of years and I'm still trying to figure out the fucking point of that endevour. Someone said something to me eons ago, I guess I was about eighteen then. They told me that a nail can replace another nail, so, find her another nail............L8er..........Aj
secondly.. i wish i could help beyond what i have to say but.... everyone deals in different ways. as Aj has already said.. she probably knew it was coming and feels like a right chump at the moment. she probably also believes that you saw it coming long before her and doesn't want to hear you say "i told you so" or something like that.
give it time.. she's angry, hurt, and probably just a little humiliated.
you are one of her best mates.. she knows this.
we don't always need our best mates to help us out. somethings we need to do on our own.
but she will come round eventually.. just stop asking if she's ok and maybe it will happen sooner
i'm not that great with advice.. so i hope stating the obvious has helped in some small way