The weather went from snow last week to mid seventies and shorts this week. So no spring this year I guess. When the weather is good most of my days are spent at the park across the street. It is the whole reason we bought this house. We have been going throught the winter but no other kids have so The Boys are very pleased that "the kids are back".... 
However that also means that the mommies are back...the only one that I have a problem with is Jo. I have talked about her before. She is the one that I knew as a girl in school and just last year found that we bought houses in same neighbourhood. Our two eldest profess to Love each other and scream each others name in glee as they see each other. Within minutes though as fight will break out over a popsickle stick or something else thats lame. The mother , Jo, and I had a falling out that was tres harsh last year. I asked if we could talk about things that were bugging me , like the lack of help from her in helping the two kids treat each other better and soon it turned crazy ugly with her e-harrassing me daily with accounts of my shitty parenting and my overly aggressive boy..(which of course made my blood boil...) anyway we ended friendship, her girl went to school and they avoided the park.
The rest of the summer without them was so nice. I could actually relax and play at the park instead of stressing out watching my two youngest while monitoring a fight wiht my eldest. To tell you the truth, I have to have someone with me now to go there as having a 1, 2, and 3 year old together all running and eating dirt is too much for me to control. I didn't have to constantly stop a fight or worry if the mom watching me is gonna post how shitty of a mom I am to others locally.. I have NEVER had the problems with Des being aggressive with ANY other child except hers. The mothers attacks were so hurtful that they took a long time to get over. SO when she emailed in the winter I avoided it because I never want to have someone in my life like that again, so mean, spiteful and judgemental...
They are baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaack. My boy and her girl ran to each other in glee , only to torment each other like no time has passed. I avoided talking to the mom as much as I could. I felt instantly sick. I WILL not avoid the park in which my kids get all their excercise and socializing done..the whole reason we bought this house...I have asked Des to not play with Alice but he is not happy about it. If Jo were someone I was comfortable with , we coulda joined forces and helped the kids try to respect each other more but she is a catty finger pointing mean bitch so thats not gonna happen...If I punish Des for responding to Alices torments , we all get punished...
She came on sg once just because she knew I blogged here and read all my shit without me knowing before I knew about public vs private profiles... before I knew I had to hide anything...before I knew that "my friend" was my enemy..I am leaving this public so she can lurk me and read it like the sneaky snake she is...
people that bully from their basements on a pc are lame and if you had any balls you would tell me things face to face... Jo anne, its too late , I know what kind of person you are , our kids shoudl not play together not because of me or you, but because of their own wierd dynamic...there are lots of other kids Des likes...God just move away hahah
anyone got advice?
However that also means that the mommies are back...the only one that I have a problem with is Jo. I have talked about her before. She is the one that I knew as a girl in school and just last year found that we bought houses in same neighbourhood. Our two eldest profess to Love each other and scream each others name in glee as they see each other. Within minutes though as fight will break out over a popsickle stick or something else thats lame. The mother , Jo, and I had a falling out that was tres harsh last year. I asked if we could talk about things that were bugging me , like the lack of help from her in helping the two kids treat each other better and soon it turned crazy ugly with her e-harrassing me daily with accounts of my shitty parenting and my overly aggressive boy..(which of course made my blood boil...) anyway we ended friendship, her girl went to school and they avoided the park.
The rest of the summer without them was so nice. I could actually relax and play at the park instead of stressing out watching my two youngest while monitoring a fight wiht my eldest. To tell you the truth, I have to have someone with me now to go there as having a 1, 2, and 3 year old together all running and eating dirt is too much for me to control. I didn't have to constantly stop a fight or worry if the mom watching me is gonna post how shitty of a mom I am to others locally.. I have NEVER had the problems with Des being aggressive with ANY other child except hers. The mothers attacks were so hurtful that they took a long time to get over. SO when she emailed in the winter I avoided it because I never want to have someone in my life like that again, so mean, spiteful and judgemental...
They are baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaack. My boy and her girl ran to each other in glee , only to torment each other like no time has passed. I avoided talking to the mom as much as I could. I felt instantly sick. I WILL not avoid the park in which my kids get all their excercise and socializing done..the whole reason we bought this house...I have asked Des to not play with Alice but he is not happy about it. If Jo were someone I was comfortable with , we coulda joined forces and helped the kids try to respect each other more but she is a catty finger pointing mean bitch so thats not gonna happen...If I punish Des for responding to Alices torments , we all get punished...
She came on sg once just because she knew I blogged here and read all my shit without me knowing before I knew about public vs private profiles... before I knew I had to hide anything...before I knew that "my friend" was my enemy..I am leaving this public so she can lurk me and read it like the sneaky snake she is...
people that bully from their basements on a pc are lame and if you had any balls you would tell me things face to face... Jo anne, its too late , I know what kind of person you are , our kids shoudl not play together not because of me or you, but because of their own wierd dynamic...there are lots of other kids Des likes...God just move away hahah
anyone got advice?
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Well good luck and take care.