Never really put much thought to the obsession among many men around virgins, but found myself going off on a tangent on the subject while reading an article around the internet as a vehicle for terrorism. At one point there is the reference for what ever reason to sexual rewards for martyrs from a Hamid al-Ali that mentions the wife who reverts back to a virgin after ever encounter. OK WTF, someone please explain because the only thing I can think of is guys who are obsessed with virgins have small dicks. Oh yes I do understand that for many male dominated cultures ther is this whole truly unhealthy and effectively rape oriented view of the female. But let's put that screwed up one aside as there are plenty of men in so called "more enlightened cultures" who are constantly going on about having a virgin. Yes a good fit is of benefit for both partners and a certain level of tightness with good lubrication whether natural or added is a component of a pleasurable sexual experience. But I must say that in all my years I have never been with a virgin and have no desire to be. A few of the women I have been with are proud mothers and my best sexual partner is one of them. OK I am not necessarily the smallest equipped above average, but not some monster thing either.
In other words I am known to hit bottom with most women until her body adjusts and with some just have to be careful regardless of how long we have been involved. But in the case of particularly tight women things don't really get worked up and exciting for both parties until the women can get into the rhythm that works for her. So boys wtf, be honest is your best sexual experience with some woman going ouch or do you need a virgin so you can both feel the experience. God knows the most important component to great sex is missing and that experience. I know for myself sex really started getting good once I really was with partners who knew what they wanted and liked and how to understand what their partner wanted, along with my understanding my partners desires and subtle differences. And when a little guidance is needed in the early days neither party is afraid to speak up or take offence to some fine tuning, no virgin male or female will be able to do that.
In other words I am known to hit bottom with most women until her body adjusts and with some just have to be careful regardless of how long we have been involved. But in the case of particularly tight women things don't really get worked up and exciting for both parties until the women can get into the rhythm that works for her. So boys wtf, be honest is your best sexual experience with some woman going ouch or do you need a virgin so you can both feel the experience. God knows the most important component to great sex is missing and that experience. I know for myself sex really started getting good once I really was with partners who knew what they wanted and liked and how to understand what their partner wanted, along with my understanding my partners desires and subtle differences. And when a little guidance is needed in the early days neither party is afraid to speak up or take offence to some fine tuning, no virgin male or female will be able to do that.