I just DONT understand women.
Me: hey
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: hi
Me: you just get back from vinacas?
Me: err
Me: (sp?)
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: vinaka's
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: friends here
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: call you later
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: or something
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: (heart sign, keeps fucking up my journal for some reason)
Me: lol
Me: k
Me: later
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: oh and i had sex with another guy tonight
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: really good sex
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: bye
Me: yeah
Me: thats something
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: haha
Me: perfect to leave me with
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: I WAS JOKING]
Me: lol
Me: yeah SURE
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: take a joke shitface
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND is away at 11:14:08 PM.
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND returned at 11:40:45 PM.
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: fuck
Me: twat?
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: i hate everything right now
Me: Por que? =(
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: i wish i hadnt let my friends over i wanna fuck sit here alone and be angry/upset
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: its hard to do with everyone wathing you
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: BECAUSE EVERYTHING FUCKING SUCKS
Me: lol, are they acting stupid?
Me: tell them to get the fuck out of your house lol
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: no they are sitting around because im ignoring them
Me: do you feel like explaining at all? it could help me in my replies
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: its just so much easier to be upset
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: i cant get over justin
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: and everybody keeps fucking changing
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: and my family is faling apart
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: and i have a court date and fuck,i feel like sitting in my room for months and then just.........like killing someone
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: i seriously just want to fucking scream at everyone and i dont know why
Me: you can't get "over" justin?
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: i havent been angry in forever and just all this shit happened all at once and its overwhelming
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: THE FACT THAT HES IN FUCKING REHAB
Me: oh yeah
Me: =(
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: fuck
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: i hate life
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: its a fucking waste of time
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: and when you think youve got it in control it fucking slaps you in the face
Me: it's not that bad, 1) Your family will be fine 2) Your court date is nothing at all, you're going to get MAYBE some community service 3) Your friend Justin, you can't do anything about
Me: I noticed this thing where you don't like to face your problems, like when we were at the mall, you walked away instead of yelling at me
Me: Thats not good
Me: You need to just face your problems head on and get them out
Me: yell at your parents, tell them whats going on
Me: yell at justin
Me: don't be sad
Me: =/
Me: Just realize that everything is only temporary, and it's just a matter of time before you're feeling fine again with no worries
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: FUCK YOU
Me: ?
Me: What?
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: fuck
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: you
Me: Why?
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: BECAUSE IM ANGRY
Me: Just take a breath and realize that the world isn't ending
Me: This is all temporary
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: sure it is
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: it should
Me: And you'll be feeling fine
Me: Nah, that's just your emotions talking
Me: If you think about it, you'll realize the truth
Me: Don't let your emotions rule you. You'll realize the more in control of your emotions you are, the happier you are.
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: sorry im not a heartless bastard like you
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: i feel shit virgil
Me: Im not heartless, I just think things out and realize that if I can't do anything about something, then WHATS THE POINT in feeling bad about it?
Me: Seriously
Me: What is the point of it?
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: i dont like the way you think
Me: I mean, if you could somehow CHANGE Justin's behavior, then you could feel bad about NOT doing something. But since there's NOTHING you can do, what the hell is the point in getting sad over it?
Me: I don't mean to say this in a condescending manner, but you'll realize eventually that some of the things I say aren't complete crap =/
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: THIS ISNT ALL ABOUT HIM YOU KNOW
Me: I know
Me: I'm using it as an example
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: AND HE WAS MY BESTFUCKINGFRIEND VIRGIL FOR A LOOONG TIME
Me: Apply it to everything else
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: MAYBE IF YOU ACTUALLY FELT SHIT FOR PEOPLE YOUD UNDERSTAND WHATS GOING ON
Me: I feel shit for people, and it's super lame that you keep trying to use that as an argument
Me: But the fact of the matter is that he got himself there, it's his fault, not yours, he can get himself out, you can't do anything about it
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: then stop attacking me because i have emotions
Me: I'm a guy, im not as emotional as girls
Me: Im not fucking attacking you
Me: Im trying to fucking help you
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: riiiiight
Me: Im trying to keep YOU from getting hurt all the time
Me: Because that's what it seems like
Me: I don't care about all the idiots around you that are making you feel like this, I care about YOU
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: sure arent ACTING like it
Me: HOW AM I NOT ACTING LIKE IT
Me: Im giving you advice
Me: on how to not get hurt
Me: Im trying to be helpful
Me: What else could I do?
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: more like attacking me
Me: Ok
Me: Quote me ONE time where I attack you
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: no
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: bye
Me: god damn it
Me: whatever
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: YOURE FUCKING STUPID
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND is away at 12:05:55 AM.
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND returned at 12:05:56 AM.
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: call my moms phone
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: now
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: *******
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND is away at 12:07:59 AM.
That fucking heart sign just erased the rest of my journal. So now I have to retype it in a shortened, angrier version.
So i call her, and she answers and a friend says something to her, she says something back. Then she says something else. I assume she said this to her friend as her friend is still talking in the background and she's quiet. Then she says "Yeahhh....Okay.." and hangs up.
I call her back and tell her to chill out, i thought she was talking to her friend. She's like whatever. So then she yells at me "Why the fuck are you telling me to control my emotions, something I cant control" and im like "Because you CAN control them and once you do you'll be ALOT happier, I'm seriously just trying to HELP you". And she's like "I can't deal with this right now, call me tomorrow".
She just sent me another IM:
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND returned at 12:19:29 AM.
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: look talking online and the phone just pisses me off,come over tomorrow because this is gonna bug me if you dont
Me: ill try
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: right
My insurance just got cancelled, so I'm not allowed to legally drive. With all the other legal shit Im facing, I don't need one for driving without insurance. Not to mention that there's no way in hell my mom is letting me drive without insurance.
CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS PEOPLE
Me: hey
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: hi
Me: you just get back from vinacas?
Me: err
Me: (sp?)
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: vinaka's
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: friends here
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: call you later
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: or something
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: (heart sign, keeps fucking up my journal for some reason)
Me: lol
Me: k
Me: later
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: oh and i had sex with another guy tonight
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: really good sex
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: bye
Me: yeah
Me: thats something
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: haha
Me: perfect to leave me with
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: I WAS JOKING]
Me: lol
Me: yeah SURE
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: take a joke shitface
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND is away at 11:14:08 PM.
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND returned at 11:40:45 PM.
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: fuck
Me: twat?
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: i hate everything right now
Me: Por que? =(
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: i wish i hadnt let my friends over i wanna fuck sit here alone and be angry/upset
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: its hard to do with everyone wathing you
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: BECAUSE EVERYTHING FUCKING SUCKS
Me: lol, are they acting stupid?
Me: tell them to get the fuck out of your house lol
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: no they are sitting around because im ignoring them
Me: do you feel like explaining at all? it could help me in my replies
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: its just so much easier to be upset
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: i cant get over justin
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: and everybody keeps fucking changing
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: and my family is faling apart
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: and i have a court date and fuck,i feel like sitting in my room for months and then just.........like killing someone
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: i seriously just want to fucking scream at everyone and i dont know why
Me: you can't get "over" justin?
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: i havent been angry in forever and just all this shit happened all at once and its overwhelming
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: THE FACT THAT HES IN FUCKING REHAB
Me: oh yeah
Me: =(
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: fuck
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: i hate life
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: its a fucking waste of time
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: and when you think youve got it in control it fucking slaps you in the face
Me: it's not that bad, 1) Your family will be fine 2) Your court date is nothing at all, you're going to get MAYBE some community service 3) Your friend Justin, you can't do anything about
Me: I noticed this thing where you don't like to face your problems, like when we were at the mall, you walked away instead of yelling at me
Me: Thats not good
Me: You need to just face your problems head on and get them out
Me: yell at your parents, tell them whats going on
Me: yell at justin
Me: don't be sad
Me: =/
Me: Just realize that everything is only temporary, and it's just a matter of time before you're feeling fine again with no worries
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: FUCK YOU
Me: ?
Me: What?
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: fuck
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: you
Me: Why?
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: BECAUSE IM ANGRY
Me: Just take a breath and realize that the world isn't ending
Me: This is all temporary
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: sure it is
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: it should
Me: And you'll be feeling fine
Me: Nah, that's just your emotions talking
Me: If you think about it, you'll realize the truth
Me: Don't let your emotions rule you. You'll realize the more in control of your emotions you are, the happier you are.
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: sorry im not a heartless bastard like you
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: i feel shit virgil
Me: Im not heartless, I just think things out and realize that if I can't do anything about something, then WHATS THE POINT in feeling bad about it?
Me: Seriously
Me: What is the point of it?
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: i dont like the way you think
Me: I mean, if you could somehow CHANGE Justin's behavior, then you could feel bad about NOT doing something. But since there's NOTHING you can do, what the hell is the point in getting sad over it?
Me: I don't mean to say this in a condescending manner, but you'll realize eventually that some of the things I say aren't complete crap =/
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: THIS ISNT ALL ABOUT HIM YOU KNOW
Me: I know
Me: I'm using it as an example
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: AND HE WAS MY BESTFUCKINGFRIEND VIRGIL FOR A LOOONG TIME
Me: Apply it to everything else
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: MAYBE IF YOU ACTUALLY FELT SHIT FOR PEOPLE YOUD UNDERSTAND WHATS GOING ON
Me: I feel shit for people, and it's super lame that you keep trying to use that as an argument
Me: But the fact of the matter is that he got himself there, it's his fault, not yours, he can get himself out, you can't do anything about it
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: then stop attacking me because i have emotions
Me: I'm a guy, im not as emotional as girls
Me: Im not fucking attacking you
Me: Im trying to fucking help you
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: riiiiight
Me: Im trying to keep YOU from getting hurt all the time
Me: Because that's what it seems like
Me: I don't care about all the idiots around you that are making you feel like this, I care about YOU
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: sure arent ACTING like it
Me: HOW AM I NOT ACTING LIKE IT
Me: Im giving you advice
Me: on how to not get hurt
Me: Im trying to be helpful
Me: What else could I do?
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: more like attacking me
Me: Ok
Me: Quote me ONE time where I attack you
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: no
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: bye
Me: god damn it
Me: whatever
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: YOURE FUCKING STUPID
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND is away at 12:05:55 AM.
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND returned at 12:05:56 AM.
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: call my moms phone
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: now
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: *******
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND is away at 12:07:59 AM.
That fucking heart sign just erased the rest of my journal. So now I have to retype it in a shortened, angrier version.
So i call her, and she answers and a friend says something to her, she says something back. Then she says something else. I assume she said this to her friend as her friend is still talking in the background and she's quiet. Then she says "Yeahhh....Okay.." and hangs up.
I call her back and tell her to chill out, i thought she was talking to her friend. She's like whatever. So then she yells at me "Why the fuck are you telling me to control my emotions, something I cant control" and im like "Because you CAN control them and once you do you'll be ALOT happier, I'm seriously just trying to HELP you". And she's like "I can't deal with this right now, call me tomorrow".
She just sent me another IM:
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND returned at 12:19:29 AM.
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: look talking online and the phone just pisses me off,come over tomorrow because this is gonna bug me if you dont
Me: ill try
CRAZYGIRLFRIEND: right
My insurance just got cancelled, so I'm not allowed to legally drive. With all the other legal shit Im facing, I don't need one for driving without insurance. Not to mention that there's no way in hell my mom is letting me drive without insurance.
CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS PEOPLE
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this girls needs to read some books about emotional management
and well next time you see it getting out of hands
just let go
if she got problems (albeit emotional ones) you cant help her
by arguing at that specific moment
my 2 cents worth